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Hi, i am a little anxious regarding my recent exposure.
I am 24 years old in excellent health with no previous STIs including no HPV - never had a cold sore or any STI in the past.
I was drunk a couple of nights ago and visited Massage Parlour in the UK. I went with 2 girls and did the following:
- Received oral while protected
- Performed Cunninglus on 1 girl for less than 30 seconds and only really exposed the tip of my tongue to Clitoris of the female. I have no cuts on my lips, mouth and no bleeding gums.
- Had very brief intercourse with both girls last less than 1 min each time - both times protected and did not orgasm.
My questions now are what my risks to getting are:
1. Herpes of the Mouth - could i get this from the cunnilingus?
2. Genital Herpes - i am circumcised with no lesions or cracks in the skin - was also protected. What is the chance i got genital herpes from my brief exposure? I know stats that herpes for males is far less than females.
3. I know the risk of HIV for this exposure is close to zero as but what are my risks of other STIs?
4. Does it increase my probability of no STIs with the fact that UK massage parlours mostly have protected sex and must be more knowledgeable than other Sex workers regarding testing in developing Countries i would presume?
5. Does the fact that genital to genital exposure time was very limited increase my odds of no STI.
6. I have a girlfriend to who i was obviously unfaithful too - it has now been 2 days since my exposure and i have no signs or symptoms of STI just yet. I would not want to give her any STIs and we have sex with no protection as i had been tested in the past and she was a virgin when i met her. I have been with her for 4 years with no STI obviously because we have both been faithful to each other. What are the odds i can give her something when i see her in 7day from know? Obviously i will refrain if i see any symptoms but what are chances of asymptomatic transfer?
Thanks for any help - i am trying to look at this from a rational manner and would hope the statistics of any exposure was extremely small.
I am 24 years old in excellent health with no previous STIs including no HPV - never had a cold sore or any STI in the past.
I was drunk a couple of nights ago and visited Massage Parlour in the UK. I went with 2 girls and did the following:
- Received oral while protected
- Performed Cunninglus on 1 girl for less than 30 seconds and only really exposed the tip of my tongue to Clitoris of the female. I have no cuts on my lips, mouth and no bleeding gums.
- Had very brief intercourse with both girls last less than 1 min each time - both times protected and did not orgasm.
My questions now are what my risks to getting are:
1. Herpes of the Mouth - could i get this from the cunnilingus?
2. Genital Herpes - i am circumcised with no lesions or cracks in the skin - was also protected. What is the chance i got genital herpes from my brief exposure? I know stats that herpes for males is far less than females.
3. I know the risk of HIV for this exposure is close to zero as but what are my risks of other STIs?
4. Does it increase my probability of no STIs with the fact that UK massage parlours mostly have protected sex and must be more knowledgeable than other Sex workers regarding testing in developing Countries i would presume?
5. Does the fact that genital to genital exposure time was very limited increase my odds of no STI.
6. I have a girlfriend to who i was obviously unfaithful too - it has now been 2 days since my exposure and i have no signs or symptoms of STI just yet. I would not want to give her any STIs and we have sex with no protection as i had been tested in the past and she was a virgin when i met her. I have been with her for 4 years with no STI obviously because we have both been faithful to each other. What are the odds i can give her something when i see her in 7day from know? Obviously i will refrain if i see any symptoms but what are chances of asymptomatic transfer?
Thanks for any help - i am trying to look at this from a rational manner and would hope the statistics of any exposure was extremely small.
1, yes you have a chance, but if the women did not have an outbreak then your chances are small and since your exposure was 1 time and very brief then you are pretty safe from that.
2. Again you have a chance, but protection helps a lot and with no outbreaks the chance decreases
3.Condoms work so chances of getting anything else is close to zero if not zero.
4. Most places like that require clean workers, because if it gets out that they are unclean you would see business go down and possibly the police get complaints and shut down the business.
5.Brief exposures do cut the risk, but can't give you a percentage.
6. It is easier for a women to get something from a man so I can't give you odds, but if you have something chances are she would get it.
2. Again you have a chance, but protection helps a lot and with no outbreaks the chance decreases
3.Condoms work so chances of getting anything else is close to zero if not zero.
4. Most places like that require clean workers, because if it gets out that they are unclean you would see business go down and possibly the police get complaints and shut down the business.
5.Brief exposures do cut the risk, but can't give you a percentage.
6. It is easier for a women to get something from a man so I can't give you odds, but if you have something chances are she would get it.
And i tried posting on the Expert forum and tried 3 times costing me $45 but the post button would not work. Still no response from help on this site - maybe something wrong with the server.
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