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my gf game me an unprotected bj but she had a cold sore on the side of her mouth soo whats my risk of getting hiv?
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1318465 tn?1614894302
Pay a visit to the herpes forum and read those achieves to learn all about herpes.
NO further questions on herpes.

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30% OF PEOPLE WHO HAVE gential herpes have it due to the HSV-1 strain.  Making the majority who have it, by the HSV-2 strain.   To say its "less common" that depends on how you see it; as for my personal opinion abstinence from any sexual activity or protected oral sex is key to peace of mind.

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ok but is it less common to contract hsv 1 to the genitals then hsv 2?
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1318465 tn?1614894302
So its not considered and STD for her because she probably had it (oral herpes HSV-1) since she was a child.  but if she gave you fallacito you can get her oral herpes on your gentials and that IS considered an STD because you aquired HSV-1 or your genitals --if you did get it and that would be gential herpes caused by HSV-1.

So bottom line 80% of the population has oral herpes (what your girlfriend has: HSV-1)
that there was a lesion increases the risk of transmission from your encounter.  If you don't see anything (ucer/lesion) appear within the next couple of weeks then your fine.  

If she is a virgin then correct she does not have HSV-2 (the more common variant of gential herpes)
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ok so would this be considered an std beacuse its type one the normal kinda im kinda scared now is it normal should i be worried? cus if shes a virgin she dosent have type 2
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101028 tn?1419603004
so why in the world are you worried about hiv from a virgin partner???

should you develop any obvious genital symptoms in the next 2-20 days, be seen promptly for testing for genital herpes.

http://www.ashastd.org/herpes/herpes_learn_oralherpes.cfm  has more reading on oral herpes for your and your gf so that you can better educate yourselves about why her performing oral on anyone when she has a cold sore is a bad idea.

grace
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Well my girl also says she is a virgin and only has been fingered i fingerd her with 2 finger but was kindof tight when i inserted three she started to bleed so i am assuming she really is
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101028 tn?1419603004
cold sores are herpes.  

your risk would be for  herpes, not hiv.

have you and your gf been tested for hiv and other std's to know who has what?

grace
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1318465 tn?1614894302
Zero risk.   --even if we assume your girlfriend is infected.

Also I would bet you money that your girlfriend does not have HIV.    And she wouldn't like our bet for two good reasons.  
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