Please Help Me,
Eleven days ago I did the dumbest thing in my life. I am 24, and currently studying in Germany and after too much to drink I stumbled into a "Cabaret." While there I hooked up with one of the workers. She performed protected oral sex on me, while I (like an idiot) performed unprotected oral sex on her, as well as fingered her. She never orgasmed though. Since then I have been going crazy as to what I have, and have been scouring the internet for possible symptoms. She told me she was clean, but people lie all the time. I also called the Cabaret to ask them if the women get tested regularly, and was told that they do need too, and neither do I, and if I have I problem then to come by, which to me sounds like a cop out. In the last few days, the opening around my urethra has become red, and itches a little, though only when I think about it, or worry about what I have, and it burns a little after I urinate. I have also developed a cold sore on my lip. Both of these symptoms can be attributed to stress, but today came the scariest thing in my life. After I urinated this afternoon, I milky white substance leaked from my penis. It looked similar to semen, though near not as thick. My urine also smells horrible, like rotten eggs. I do take a protein supplement for my workouts, and I take a lot of vitamins, a whole food vitamin, plus extra vitamin C and E, could this be the cause? I am so scared I think I am going to have a heart attack. I haven't really slept for weeks, and my hair is falling out, but I know both of those are due to emotional stress. The worst part is that I am engaged and my fiancee is coming to visit me in 38 days. I am so scared to tell her, because she will definitely leave me, but I do not want to give her anything, and I don't want to lose her over one night of drunken stupidity and intense loneliness. I have an appointment to have the full STD screening, but not until next Thursday, it was the quickest they could fit me in. So I guess my questions are:
- Do I have an STD, or really what are the chances and possible STDs I have acquired? I thought that the bacterial infections couldn't travel from the throat to the genitals (ie gonnoreah, chlamydia, and syphillis.)
- What are the chances that I have acquired HPV, HSV-2, HIV or Hepititis? HSV-2 from the mouth to the genitals?!?
- Could this be a urological infection?
- I have been checking my penis every 20 minuets and there is no additional leakage, is that normal for the bacterial infections?
-What could the redness and irritation around the urethra be attributed too, if not an STD?
- Should I just go to the City emergency clinic ASAP?
Thank you very much for your time, as I really appreciate it, hopefully your response can get me through the next ten days.