I need a miracle

My husband and I have been together for 4 years, but were just married in June.  Shortly after we started dating I discovered that I had HPV and it progressed in to cancerous cells and in January I ended up having most of my cervix removed.  At that time I had the full gamut of tests done.  Every STD and HIV and came up negative for them all.  For the last month I have been fighting with back pain, bleeding, all the symptoms of PID or another abnormal cell flare up.  I had an examination at the hospital and declined STD tests because I trust my husband.  The ER was not able to find a cause and recommended that I go have a proper pap.  Last week I went and had my pap.  I had been bleeding badly for 2 weeks.  The dr. found a fibroid on my cervix but did not see anything else wrong.  I received the results from my pap today.  No abnormal cells, but I have a serious case of chlamydia that has caused my some very serious issues.  
My husband and I have been fighting all day.  I believe that's expected.  I have been faithful to my husband since we met.  I know I have done nothing wrong which leaves me one option, he cheated and gave it to me.  However, I am hoping my some miracle of a chance that maybe that didn't happen.  Before my husband and I met, he contracted it and was treated with the shot.  He has never been tested since then.  He has assured me there was no need.  However, is it possible that it laid dormant for this long and now that I have had the surgery and am more exposed that I have contracted it?  Could this happen and it never show on a previous test?  Please God, please tell me that it is a possibility because the contrary is a very painful and life altering alternative.

Please, I need to know if there is any chance of this.  I pray there is.  


This discussion is related to Can Chlamudia lay dormant, and only appear later??.

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For him to have chlymida for 4+ years and never know it...I doubt it. I don't want to say for sure because I am not a Dr but I doubt it.

And with your negative STD tests in Jan that leads me to believe even more that it was a recent infection.

It is possible that you got a false positive (rare but can happen)

My advice is to either find and talk to a STD specialist to see if they have ever heard of chlymida for 4+ years in a man without some kind of issues or pay and post in the experts forum. the Dr's on this site are some of the best when it comes to STD's.