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IM SCARED I GOT HIV

Im sorry for my mistakes but im foreing .and for the long post


Everything started in January , I meet this girl at the place were i was working ,well we started to talk ( she had a BF at the time and I have a wife. .... one day she invited me to her house  around middle february ... we end up having oral sex and 1 minute unprotected sex and we stoped because we did not have comdons( there was not ejaculation )... after that nothing happend everything went well 2 weeks later i got her to come to my house and we end up in the same scenario oral sex and 1 minute unprotected sex and stopped because again we did not have condoms ( no ejaculation again) so i went and clean my self right away since im not circumsized .. well i did not think anything since she does not do drugs drink smokes neither its a party person .. but she had a very crappy bf who probably cheated on her ... ( with that time i was still having sex with my wife like always..( my wife its clean we just had a baby one year ago and she was tested)  anyways 3 weeks later i started to have burning sentation in my left side prostate after ejaculating and prior and after urinating and left side stomach pain (constipation with stomach pain its been there forever)so at the month of the exposure i went to the Dr and  he said it does not look like any std since your penis looks very clean without any marks. I still insisted to get tested so he did  chlamydia swab , hiv , hep a b c ...he was ok well we will test you and i want you to take this antibiotics vibramycin .. and amitiza for the constipation and stomach pain well it did not go well as soon as a took the antibiotics and the amitiza i got 1 time diarrea and i felt bad, 3 days later my tongue started to turn white  and my mouth got so dry so my body got very itchy everywere NO RASH called him and he prescribed me septra and still did not clear the prostate irritation pain and made my tongue completaly white with painful red dots, i went bak and told him about it he did not seen concern so he was its a thrush and normal from antibiotics keep taking the antibiotics and take difluconazole for 7 days ( it did not help ) a this point my anxiety levels are so high that i got in to panic attack after reading about the thrust and the hiv been the cause... 2 weeks later i got the results he said everything clean No chlamydia ..
test results 4 weeks sin the last encaunter 6 weeks since the first encaunter
here are the test results

hep b surface  
antigen w refle confirm
hep b no surface antigen      non reactive       reference range non reactive

hep c antibody                     non reactive      reference range non reactive
hep c signal to cut off 0.09                           reference range 1.00
hiv ab  hiv 1/2  EIA
with reflexes
HIV 12 EIA screen non reactive   reference range     non reactive

well i keep having anxiety and alot of panic attacks . i started to feel headaches witch sometimes its normal because i have braces and TMJ  so my jaw hurts sometimes , so he sent me to an urologyst and gaestrontorologist wich urologyst said no sign of std or neither prostate inflamation maybe i little infection, the g.. he said lets do an endoscopy and colonoscopy .. endoscopy mild gastritis colonoscopy mild proctitis provably from the prep liquid.... at this point my tongue still white and it hurts some dry mouth , my neck starting to hurt and i got a swollen lymph node ( left side supraclavicular ) ... my neck its stiff and hurts my tongue still white it hurts more if i drink like apple juice or any juice im itching  my armpits and all over my body.. now my whife got a swollen in groin lymph node or an in groin hair we dont know .. her period came 1 week earlier and she say her neck lymphs hurts..... and i get muscle spasm .. no the type of pain like flu but just spasms ..
I called and ask the girl since she had a big left side swollen lymph node for a month back 3 months ago... and ask her about her std and she say she is clean... like I said she looks very clean and its no the typical party girl ..

DR WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THIS....  should i test again im very scared and my anxiety its killing me .. please help me  .
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101028 tn?1419603004
you already have a post on the hiv forum which is where all hiv related questions belong. follow up there - thanks!

grace
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i forgot to add she is a white female .. i dont know if it matters or not.
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