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[whateverwillbe]

I am 22 and I have had sex with 5 people so far. 3 of them wore a condom. The last two that didn't were tested.

Anyway, I had a pap smear done to me before I hooked up with my 4th  boy-friend. If I had anything they would tell me right? My 4th boy-friend only had sex with one other partner before me. A few days after we had sex he got a flaky substance around the head of his penis. Was his body just getting use to mine. He never got that flaky substance again. He was the first guy I had ever had un-protected sex with so it didn't make sense that he would even have that. Is that normal? What was it?

My second boy-friend performed oral on me. I found out later that he would sometimes get cold sores on his lips. I can not remember if he had it while he performed on me though. Could I have gotten herpes from that and if so wouldn't I know? I sometimes itch but it happens every once or twice a year. When I use vagisil it goes away. It's been two and a half years since I have been with him.

I also have a question for my fiance. When he drinks alcohol he has a hard time peeing after sex. It's only when he drinks though. Is this normal? Him and I have been having sex a lot lately. Is it possible to itch from too much sex. I don't ever get bumps of any sort. I have a clean clearish/white distarge. I don't smell down there. I get bumps where my pubic hair is but I also shave and well the bumps don't itch or bother me so I should be alright right? Do I just have (sorry to gross you out) a yeast infection? By the way he was tested before we had sex. He is clean.

One more question, what are all the std you can get from oral sex?

Sorry for all the questions. I am just worried.

[auntiejessi]

Hi there -

Here is a list of county health departments.  Call your county's dept and ask about std testing.  http://www.ncalhd.org/county.htm

Here is another list - I have no idea how accurate it is, so call ahead - http://yourstdhelp.com/north_carolina.html

Aj

[whateverwillbe]

Interesting. Thank you very much. I think that might just be it because I don't have bumps that sorry but ooze or anything. They don't look like warts either. I still need to go to a clinic though. I don't know of any around North Carolina. I just moved here and I don't have insurence either.

[gracefromHHP]

I was thinking folliculitis or something similar actually from shaving.

grace

[whateverwillbe]

Does skin infection include herpes, HPV, etc? I hope I just have a yeast infection.

[gracefromHHP]

It sounds like you need to go and be seen and get an exam. If you are concerned about std's then get tested for them.  Also get tested for yeast and bacterial infections - don't guess and self treat. Since you shave you very well could have a skin infection of some sort going on. I would not shave again until you've figured out what is going on and been properly treated.

If you shower regularly you are clean, if you've been tested for std's and don't have any then you are std free/std negative.  It's never a bad idea to ask for a copy of std testing to see what you were tested for since at most clinics asking for std testing only gets you tested for 2 or 3 std's at the most and leaves a lot untested for.  www.ashastd.org has a full list of std's and how to test for them for further reading.

grace