Is this a HIV/STD risk?

[jel016]

Hi,

I'm a gay male who was fingered (I'm not sure if it was rectum or anus). Its a bit hard to remember what happened so I apologise. I was masturbating with my partner when he spunked on his hand. I was then fingered with the hand my boyfriend had spunked on and as he went to finger me, his cum was going in my anus/rectum. I don't know if it was cum or sweat, but if it was cum what are the risks of getting HIV or an STD? I am 14 years old and I totally realise my mistake and I have promised never to have done something as silly as this again, please help so I can put my mind at rest or make any move needed. I do not know how long it was after he spunked when he fingered me and I also cant remember if it was his hand or fingers he used to finger me with but this wouldn't matter either way right? Also, I am very uneducated about sex education and things so can someone tell me if semen, sperm and cum are all the same? Thanks so much for any answers.

[jel016]

LOL I will do! ;) By the way the rectum and anus are the same thing right?

[Prizefighter]

Just wear condoms brother.

[jel016]

Honestly thank you so much, for someone this age it is a pretty big thing so I thank you and I can now live my life happily, words on a computer screen can describe my greatfulness, thanks a million. :)

[jel016]

Thanks so much for your help! :)

[Prizefighter]

Last comment I will say.   It is on you if you want to move on.  If I were in your shoes, I would move on. Good luck.

[jel016]

So because I've not noticed or felt anything? Shall I just move on with life?

[Prizefighter]

I already told you what I would do if I were you. Re-read out little talk.

[jel016]

So what would your advice be to me?

[Prizefighter]

By having sex. Look up the diseases.

[jel016]

It was just sucking. And what is the clap? Also how would you get Gonorrhea? I haven't experienced any open sores. And how would you get warts and syphilis?

[Prizefighter]

Gonorrhea, the clap, herpes (which you should know because you will get painful, open sores. Warts, Possibly syphilis.  You can prevent all of this with respect to blowjobs if you and your partner wear condoms.    

[jel016]

What could I have caught? Could you also explain how? I thank you so much for dedicating your time to answering my questions! But I have promised not to have any kind of sex until I am old enough because I am sensible enough to know better.

[Prizefighter]

You might have caught something from that, but I had my penis sucked when I was a young man (by women of course) and never caught anything. If it were me, I would not worry about it unless you see something or feel pain.  You need to wear a condom ALL THE TIME when having any kind of sex.

[jel016]

Thank you so much! I really appreciate it and it's so good knowing I can move on with my life now.

Also, am I at any risk of anything if I have had my penis sucked before? This has happened a few times but I've never sucked his penis.

I don't know how many times I've had my penis sucked because when all of these worries happen you forget.

[Prizefighter]

No risk for HIV nor STD. Educate your self about sex or you will catch something if you do not.  All the words are the same.