Hi Doc,
Three years ago now, I lost my virginity, unprotected, to a girl I was seeing at the time. We were both intoxicated, and due to that, I could not keep an erection, so the total time of penetration was probably less than two minutes.
About a week after that I started burning and tingling in my genitals, which gave way to
itchingCauses of vaginal itching
Eye burning - itching and discharge
Itching
Jock itch
Muscle twitching
Vaginal itching and rash that lasted for probably six weeks before I went to my urologist. He looked at me down there and told me I had
jockJock itch itch and possibly a yeast infection. He told me to get some medicated powder for
jockJock itch itch and
athleteAthlete's foot
Athlete's foot cream
Athlete's foot, tinea pedis's
footAthlete's foot
Athlete's foot, tinea pedis
Clubfoot
Clubfoot deformity
Clubfoot repair
Clubfoot repair - series
Diabetes foot care
Diabetic blood circulation in foot
Diabetic foot care
Erythema toxicum on the foot
Foot pain, and also prescribed me
Diflucan to treat yeast. Sure enough, the powder knocked out my itch and all seemed to be well for a few days. Then, oddly, I noticed a small red bump under the head of my penis, on the shaft. It did not hurt at all, and it cleared up in a few days, although to this day, if I look closely enough, I can tell where it was, as it left a little mark on my skin. It never broke open or scabbed over or anything.
Although the spot cleared up, my penis on the right side of the shaft felt irritated, like it was raw all the time. This bothered me for months. I did see my general M.D. in that time and he gave me some steroid cream that helped some, but still had underlying rawness and irritation.
Almost a year after the encounter that started this, and having experienced irritation and rawness for a year, I made an appointment with another urologist and explained everything in detail to him. He said it did not sound like herpes and that I would KNOW if I had herpes and he told me in fact, that there was no known STD that produced the symptoms that I described over that long period of time. He told me to keep my hair trimmed down there and that would help any itching or tingling.
Almost immediately after talking to him, like the next day, things seemed to improve. In fact, I wasn't irritated or raw, and I didn't itch or tingle. This continued for a couple of years, until a month ago or so. I seemed to itch a little down there along with a little tingling centered around my testicle area, and the last week or so, my penis has been a little bit tender or irritated in the same place as 3 years prior. I have been putting the anti-bacterial powder on again and it seems to help. I also have trimmed really well again and that seems to help the itching, although it still bothers me some.
Doc, what I am worried about is wondering if this might be herpes? The only thing that is confusing is that I've read that herpes sypmtoms don't last as long as my symptoms lasted before. Although, I have no idea what is going on. I do think it has to be linked to that one night of sexual activity, short in duration as it was, because outside of prostatitis, which I suffered with for a year prior to my sexual encounter, I had never had any problems whatsoever. I am 32 years old now. I must say also, that I never in any of this time have noticed any ulcerations or blister-like sores on my genitals associated with extreme herpes cases.
Do these symptoms sound like herpes or any STD you know of? I know the tingling and itching can be symptoms, but they seem to last way too long for what I've read about for episodes of herpes.
I am to the point of going to the doctor again and getting a blood test for herpes. I have not had sex since then, but if I do have something, I know the responsible thing to do is to know about it, and be able to let someone else know up front.
Doc, any information or advice you can give me would be appreciated.