Japanese Massage Parlor

[Ben730]

Hello again, I don't seem to learn anything. I have a question. I recently broke up with my girlfriend then I went out with my friends and got smashed. I meet this chinese girl in Roppongi, Japan. Long story short... (She was a massage girl) I went with her to her room. She gave me a massage. Then she asked if I wanted a happy ending or sex. I said yes. She called in another girl. From what I remember I told her I wanted to use a condom and gave her my condom( XL Condom, I dont want to take any chances). She used her mouth to roll the condom on, and give me oral sex with the condom on. She put lube on herself. Then she layed down and we had intercourse for about 15 min. I was very careful to not let any part of my genitel touch hers. After a few moments she said do you want hand job? She took off condom, and came back with oil. (This concerns me, I dont know if she washed her hands after taking the condom off, I don't know what her hands looked like.) She then gave me handjob for about 45 mins, I washed myself. Asked for another body massage as I fell asleep.

I did notice that she didnt want me to touch her or kiss her body. I figured she didnt want any STD also.

I know it sounds strange, but 2 day after that I'm feeling tired, fateged, loss of appitie, dizzy sometimes. I dont know what to think. I'm going to the doctor and the clinic, I maybe the flu, but also some STD or STI.

I'm afraid of full body HERPES, from the body massge, and god knows what else from the handjob. I've read a few post here.

As for my last post, I have a strange feeling inside the tip of my penis, it comes and goes. I'm really beginning to hate sex damn. Any advise from the community.

[2terrified]

What you are is feeling extremely guilty for having sex in a massage parlor.  Condoms are very effective against std's.  It did not break, so you are safe there.  You cannot get std's from hand jobs, so you are safe there.  And if you are that worried about getting full body herpes, then you probably should never have sex again unclothed...ever. (which must be very very rare if it happens at all.  I've never heard of it being of that much concern in all my research.)  My advise is never have sex that you consider risky again.  And if you cannot move past it, then seek professional therapy and look into why.

[Ben730]

I'm going to go to the Clinic and check, I think the time is 1 or 2 weeks. I know the feeling is not in my head. If the doc tells me I have it, I can move on. The not knowing is killing me. I know what my penis normally feels like. It feels different now, too sensative. The worst part is I'm in Japan, were there are many girls. I guess you have to pay to play.

[2terrified]

Hopefully you can move on if you are told it is not an std as well.  I'm willing to bet that it isn't.

[Ben730]

I just got tested.I hope I dont have HIV, or HPV. It sounds alot like herpes, and my skin burns, I guess it effects other differently. Damn I may have herpes, I'm pretty sure its almost textbook minus the marks or leasons.

[Vance2335]

More info on herpes, please post in the herpes communtiy.

[2terrified]

It is actually not textbook. Where are you getting your information?