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As you probably anticipated, I cannot conclude with any certainty whether or not you have herpes. You describe fairly typical symptoms (the most unusual thing is that the first episode usually has several lesions, not just one or two), and a health care provider--who probably has seen lots of cases--thinks it's herpes. On the other hand, if both you and your partner truly had negative blood tests for both HSV-1 and HSV-2, herpes is much less likely. Of course, even then it would be possible, if either of you had other sex partners after your blood tests and before you had sex together. False negative blood tests are uncommon: even the older, non-type specific tests are reliable when negative.
If you have herpes, it also isn't clear whether you were recently infected by your boyfriend, or might have had it for some time and only now are having your first symptoms. About 40% of apparent first herpes infections in fact are recurrent outbreaks. However, this is very unlikely if in fact you had a negative blood test recently.
Presumably your ObG did a herpes test on the lesion (I certainly hope so!). The thing to do now is just await the result, which should be available in a couple of days. If it is positive, it will prove the diagnosis. (Make sure the lab determines whether it is HSV-1 or HSV-2. It makes a lot of difference in treatment, prevention, and what to expect in terms of recurrent outbreaks.) If the test is negative--or if your ObG didn't do a test--then you and your partner both should have repeat blood tests, making sure that the specimens go to a lab that does a truly type-specific test, such as HerpeSelect.
The other questions, such as potential for transmitting it to your boyfriend, depend on the answers to all the unknown factors I have mentioned.
Good luck-- HHH, MD
it will take a while to get my results. obgyn took the swab test (culture) and blood tests. not sure how accurate these will be but i'm assuming that the swab test will be accurate. she was in a hurry and was not interested in catering to my questions... if you can help me with some answers, i'd greatly appreciated it! Thank you!
The apparent improvement on valtrex suggests herpes is the problem. However, it could be clearing up on its own.
Glad to see a culture test was done. That's the sort of information that should have been in the question itself. Wait for the results; most of the other issues then will become clear.
i know i should just wait for the results, but, that could take another week so any of your input would be greatly appreciated. also, what about the likelihood of passing it on to my bf? If what i have is HSV2, then, does that mean i was having a recurrence and if so, then, does that mean i was in the "shedding" stage?
Thank you very much for your replies. Although I still have to wait for my test results, and i still don't know if i'm infected or not, for some reason, it made me feel better to just to be able to ask an expert.
Herpes 1 IgG Negative, <.9; Herpes 2 IgG Negative <.9
Does this mean that if my test results are positive that i gave him herpes? My symptoms first arose on Friday (6/8) and he got tested on 6/13. We're assuming that he has to get re-tested b/c it was too soon for the virus (if it is) to peak.
On a side note, I was given valtrex by my doctor on tuesday due to the appearance of the sore, I noticed that the sore has slowly diminished but is not entirely gone yet and my course of taking the meds is done. isn't the sore supposed to last 7 to 10 days on its own? doesn't valtrex diminish the sore quicker than its usual course? does the fact that i still have the sore minimally present mean that it may not be herpes that caused the sore at all? We are just so confused because both of us were tested within the last 6 months and both of us had negative blood tests for herpes and both of us have been completely monogamous w/each other. If friday's sore is really herpes, does it mean that our prior blood tests were not accurate?
If anyone out there can give some insight, i'd really appreciate it!
It can take a week for herpes lesions to clear up, even with treatment.
Continue with plans for follow-up testing. But most likely your follow-up testing will be negative. Since your boyfriend is the only possible source of your infection (if I correctly recall the details of your long story), his negative result probably means yours also will be negative and that herpes is not your problem.
HHH, MD
I'm sorry to obsess, but, as you can tell from the forum, this is a realm in which most become paranoid, lose sleep, can't work, etc. i have definitely learned a lot from the forum and i do feel that my experience was a bit different from others' on this forum in that i only found the one sore and the background info. i gave, so i do hope that my postings helped someone in a similar situation...
Thank you SO much Dr. HHH! I am so glad that i happened upon this forum. it definitely eased some of my frustrations and paranoia...