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Little concern..advise please

Hello Grace

Thanks for the answer on condom changing.

I am committed to safe sex and condom use forever as per your advice.  I generally visit CSWs once or twice a year without penetrative sex now.  Just condom protected sex and I get regular testing done if i ever have any penetrative sex with a partner.  My last penetrative encounter has been 7 months ago and I have been tested negative for all in december annual exams.

However i visited a CSW for masturbation with water based lubricant and dry humping with clothes, in December.  Now I know this was no risk, but i have a little concern.  I masturbated her and she did the same for me.  I suddenly got a adductor muscle cramp while near the end.  I immediately rinsed my hands under water (used to masturbate her) and started stretching and massaging that muscle.  I had some pimples on my thigh and pubic area and i happened to break one or two while trying to remove the cramp.  This caused some blood to come out in one as it had been scratched with my fingers while trying to massage there.  I also poped and pressed an acne pimple on my face using same hands after i went to the toilet as the cramp calmed (did not wash hands again).  After all this I showered and left.

My friend who is a nurse in ER says its a risk for STDs,,she is not so sure herself... Im unsure this is a risk myself as i did rinse the fluids with water..albeit is was a quick rinse..  Now you tell me if this is really a risk, i mean the scratching of the pimples and acne with fingers (rinsed with water) used to masturbated CSW? Can i have inadvertently contiminated myself by this with hep, Hiv or other viruses stds from this brief scratching of self inflicted wounds?

Thanks as always for the help dear.



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Yes, move on
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Vance2335 If u say no risk then its no risk.  I lacked that info.  By the way it was a fresh injury, not a cur...but i think it is just what u meant.  My problem is that i had anxiety from this as this is new to me.

Thats why I was asking if it is safe for me to move on from this?
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Thank you.

I got all info from you to help me move on.

have a nice day.
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STD's have that name for a reason...SEX not masterbation and secondary touching. Cuts mean nothing.

More info on herpe, HIV, and Hep post in those forums.
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I move on without any worry about my fears of massaging or rubbing any virus into my body via the fresh injuries i rubbed then Vance?  

Thanks to Grace also if she reads this post.  For all her valuable help always.

Thanks
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Thank you.
I was really freaked out that I got something such as HIV or Hepatitis or Syphilis from the fact that I used my bare fingers and may have brought any infectious fluid to my crotch area which in turn have entered my body via the little pimple injuries created during the massage.

I take you reassurance for no risk for all existing stds (hiv,hep a b c, herpes syphilis and all others)... Since you are the community leader and you really know this subject of std transmission just as grace.

Thank you Vance2335
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No it is not a risk.
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Fingering was with bare fingers... I usually use latex gloves but I did not have them that day.
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