Dear doctors,
Last night I visited an erotic massage parlour in Toronto. The masseuse and I were both naked and she rubbed her body on mine. There was brief contact with my penis and her inner thigh. I told her that I did not want genital to genital contact.
She then gave me a hand job for about 30 minutes. During this time she touched her vagina and used the same hand to give me a hand job. I also touched her vagina and then touched my own penis. At the end of the massage I noticed a bump on her vaginal lip. I am very very concerned now that she was having a herpes outbreak and that she touched herself and then touched my penis. Also, she rubbed her vagina on my knee.
I read in other posts that this has very low risk. However, I called the Toronto STD hotline and they told me I may have been exposed to the virus since she could have touched her sore and then touched my penis. Also, they said any part of my body that came in contact, including my knee was at risk. I am very concerned as these people are experts in the field.
Please let me know your thoughts on this. Since the exposure I have had difficulty concentrating on anything but this experience and every sensation makes me worry.
Thank you for your time.