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Need Advice - Worried about STD

Good Afternoon,
As many people say in this forum "dumb mistake" in my bachelor i went to get a private dance in a strip club and
The girl gave me oral sex without protection.. That was 3 days ago, i dont have any signs yet, but my conscience is
Not so clear..
Yes a i made a big mistake about having sex without protection..
What STD can i get?? It was for about 1-2 minutes..
Thing is that im seeing my fiance today and i should not have sex until i already tested..

Can someone help here?? Im pretty deppresed already about my actions, but to think that
I can get someone infected is deppresing.. I blame myself about this but i wont
Afect others life with my mistake...

Dont know what to tell her and weve been struggling aboy other problems and this can mess it up for sure..

A guy told me that i should wait at least a week. But my fiance is going to ask why arent we having sex..

I was thinking getting tested on wednesday, to see if i have something or not, but i dont know
If its going to be a 100% true results..
Please help!! Very deppressed here!!
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101028 tn?1419603004
really nothing we can do at this point to help you. you need to continue following up with an urologist if symptoms continue.
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Still feel urge and luttle irritaded the tip of penis..
5 days after azuthro 2g..
Please advice..
Herpes, suphillis, hepatitis, urine culture all negative..
But it was only 8 days after exposure.. Pleass help, please
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Any advice?? Starting to hurt a little..
Dont know why.. I started antibiotics this is my 3rd day after the does of 2g of azithro.. Dr told me to get uretron but its for 5 days.. How much longer??
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Also te sr. Did not send made the order for chlamydia and gono.. Can the culture tell if i have an infection of chlamydia or gono or other std???
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Thanks for the response...
I was feeling better yesterday night.. But today i have more urfe to urinate.. One dr. Told me to take urethron for 5 days also..
Dont know if this is necessary.. Im so screwed.. I thought i could have sex on friday.. But now i know this isnt going away.. Its been 3 days on azithro and nothing...
Dont know if this antibiotic cures other STDs..
Soo scared!!
On friday i get my urine culture and hsv, vdrl and hep..
Im so lost!!
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It take a few days to work.  It won't go away overnight and you might have symptoms that persist for a week or more after you're cured (if you have anything).  Rest assured that 2g of Azithro is very potent and effective against the causes of NGU.  All you can do it wait at this point and try to keep your emotions under control.  
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Still feeling the urge.. Scared that one dose will not work..
And if my urine analysis reflected no infection why then i have this symptoms..
Are there any STD that could not be reflected on the urine analysis???
And what could ihave??
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2g of Azithro is effective against most STD's caused by bacterial infections.  If you're truly noticing a decreased urge to uriniate, then if you did have anything, the antibiotic is working.  Azithro works very fast against most bacterial infections, and you should wait 7 days to have sex but after 4-5 days the bacteria will most likely be dead.

Yes, it's very depressing.  All the guys on here who have ever had NGU know what you're  going through, but the good thing is that if you had anything, you caught it early and have taken care of the problem.  Don't be depressed any longer, try to move on with your life knowing that you don't have any STD's and that you won't pass anything on.  
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Dont know when this antibiotic will heal this though!!! And if that antibiotic wotks with every STD that i could contract from oral sex..
Either when to have sex again..
Im so deppressed!!!
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Yesterday i took the azithro antibiotics and today i dont feel that urge to urine that much...
Even if the urine analysis came without infection.. I did have something and i still think i have it... I still feel the urge but not so much as yerterday...
I dont know whats happenind to me.. But its to obvious that i had unprotected oral and the this happend...
I hope witg this one dose of 2g of Azithro everything would go away...
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Please read my post to you on June 23rd.  This explains other causes of NGU.  Some of which are not detected on standard tests.  In these cases the only thing that they can go off of is a microscopic exam of first void urine and/ or urethral smear along with the precense of any symptoms.  Then they treat you and hope symptoms go away.  NGU is a tricky beast and there isn't a lot known about all the bacteria that can cause it, but again, the lack of white blood cells in your urine is a good indication that no infection is present.  Most health care providers are hesitant to do the microscopic analysis once the dipstick shows neg for WBC's, however you should print out the CDC guidelines for urethritis and bring them with you and ask them to perform the tests shown, just so you have peace of mind.  
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It says that i dont have infection but dont know what it could be... What kind of STD could it be if theres no infection presented when the lab today made my analysis?????
Could i have a STD even if theres no precense of infection?? If so what??
Its been more than 12 days wihout having sex with my fiance.. She suspects that i have somethibg or hiding... I dont know what to do!!!
Please help!!
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They did culture the urine.. I takes 5 days for the rest of the test to come back...
Dont know what could be!!
Dont kbow if i should start the antibiotics for my symptoms..
Im scared and lost!!!
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Where did you get this test done?  Can you call your doctor back and ask them if they think they should culture the urine?  The results aren't all that clear, but the fact that you don't have more than 2 WBC's is a positive sign.  I think they need to do a microcopic analysis since bacteria says Occasional and there are a few mucous threads.  This could also be normal but should be investigated.  

Regarding your tests, the only way they can detects NGU is precense of white blood cells and/ or bacteria in the urine or urethral swab.  Be persistent with your doc, don't let them blow you off if your concerned and you don't feel right.
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Got back the urine sample first.. The orgers take 5 days..
Uribe Analysis:
RBC.....0-2
Wbc.....0-2
Squamous ep cells...... RARE
Bacteria.......... OCCASIONAL
Mocous Thread..........FEW

What does this means???? I still have the urge to urine...
But dont know if i need more tests or what could it be!!
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I went to the lab today dr. Made an order for
U/A
U/C
VDRL
HbsAg
Hep C ab
HSV 1-2 ig-g

Is this enough to know if i have something???
It doesnt say nothing about NGU or NSU or chlamydia or gono...
Can i know by this tests???
Can the urine analysis tell me if i have something like Ngu or chlamydia or gono???
Scared that my tests where not complete!!
Pleas please advice!!
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We really can't add anything else from the many many many things we have already said. Go back and re read everything.

Guily/anxiety does not equal risk.
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Jessy thatks for the response..
Thing is that right after i go to the bathroom i feel like somethings comming out.. Not a urge to go perse.. Its like something comming out and when i go i only urinate a bit!!
This has never happend to me.. I dont know if my mind can get me to do this.. But i think not.. I dont have discharge and it does not hurt when urinating..
Dont know really what can be!! Tommorrow i will go to get a urine analysis to see if theres any infection..
Although i dont know if that helps me and i need other tests.. Its been 8 days now since the exposure.. I think maybe its too early and thats why im strating too feel symptOms now..
But i really dont know much about this!!
Please let me know what do you rhink and recommend!!
Thanks again jessy for your time!!
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1318465 tn?1614894302
Hey,

Guess what I have gone to the bathroom like 10 times today also.  I think a lot of tea and Naked Juice.   I am STD negative.

Hang in there your going to be alright.

(sorry for not responding to your email: I will respond here:
If you don't feel like your old self (physically) in another week, then re-visit your physician); nothing you describe sounds alarming or raises a red flag to me.


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I have gone to the bathroom like 10 times today to go urinate... Small liquid comes out though!! Sometimes when i dont think of that as much i dont get the urge to go..
Maybe symptoms are starting to appear!!!
This is devastating!!
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Its been 7 days and no discharge..
Maybe som urge to urinate.. Not urinate, its like somethings wants to come out..
Tommorow the dr. Made a order for hsv, and urine sample is this enough??? Does the urine sample will reflect other infections??? Like chlamydia, gono or NGU ot NSU???
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But an average wait is around how many days???
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101028 tn?1419603004
it depends on the lab and clinic you use. you'll need to ask them specifically when you go for testing.
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