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Welcome to the STD Forum, which is intended only for questions and support pertaining to sexually transmitted diseases other than HIV/AIDS, including chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, human papillomavirus, genital warts, trichomonas, other vaginal infections, nongonoccal urethritis (NGU), cervicitis, molluscum contagiosum, chancroid, and pelvic inflammatory disease (PID). All questions will be answered by H. Hunter Handsfield, M.D. or Edward W Hook, MD.

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by jr0803, Nov 10, 2008 11:57AM
My husband & I have been together for the past 3 1/2 years. Six months ago he found a wart on his penis & scrotum. He has had to have them removed twice. I have never had genital warts & had the HPV test done with my GYN. I do not have a cervix (since1980's) so it was done on vaginal tissue. My husband insists it must be me who infected him as this is his first experience with genital warts. He says he only got them after having sex with me. I am puzzled how I infected him when my test was negative. I have been willing to believe that he could have had this before we met & we could both have had it before we met. I'm now worried because he didn't tell me about his first outbreak & we have had unprotected sex since. I had been recovering from surgery for the past year & I have no reason to suspect him of being unfaithful to me. This is causing a lot of stress between us.

by H. Hunter Handsfield, M.D., Nov 10, 2008 12:56PM
There is much continuing mystery about HPV and genital warts transmission, reactivation, and such things.  Stories like yours are the exception, but nevertheless are quite common.

One important thing, especially in atypical cases like yours, is to be sure the diagnosis of warts is correct.  If your husband's doctor is a dermatologist or otherwise is highly experienced in diagnosing and treating genital warts, undoubtedly that is what he has.  But many other kinds of skin bumps can look like warts, and misdiagnosis is common.  If there is any doubt, and especially if he has not seen a dermatologist, that would be a logical step.

Assuming the diagnosis is correct, it does not necessarily indicate sexual indiscretion on either your part or his.  Warts can reappear (or first appear) several years after catching HPV.  If you have no other reason to doubt his sexual fidelity, then you should definitely trust him.  The important thing here is that warts are a trivial inconvenience, not a serious health risk.  And the HPV types that usually cause warts don't cause cancer -- and even if your husband's HPV infection is a high risk type that could risk cancer, the absence of a cervix means you aren't at significant risk.

Bottom line:  Make sure the diagnosis is correct; but if it is, don't lose a lot of sleep over this.  Accept the mystery as unsolved and don't let an impersonal virus affect your mearriage.

I hope this helps.  Best wishes--  HHH, MD
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by jr0803, Nov 10, 2008 01:46PM
My husband has seen a dermatologist on both occasions. He was told ALL genital warts are HPV. I'm curious if that is correct? How does this affect oral sex? Also, since the HPV test I had on vaginal tissue was "negative" can I feel confident I am truly "negative"?

by H. Hunter Handsfield, M.D., Nov 10, 2008 01:56PM
By definition, a wart is a non-cancerous skin growth caused by HPV.  T'herefore, all warts anywhere on the body are due to HPV.

No, you cannot be confident you are truly negative.  No test for HPV picks up all infections.  However, if you have no visible warts, you have no worry.  Most likely, you have been infected with your husband's wart virus strain and your immune system cleared it up.  If it hasn't cleared it up, it will do so soon.  As long as you have no symptoms, there is no health problem to be concerned about.  I'm sure your own doctor will confirm this.

Finally, don't worry about oral sex.  Despite very frequent oral exposure to genital HPV infections, oral warts or other significant symptoms are rare.  Your husbands warts should have no effect whatsoever on your sex life; any and all kinds of sexual contact with one another are OK to continue without change, and without condoms or other protection.
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