My situation:
On 10/5/12 I had protected intercourse with SW. Engaged in brief "69" position, with my mouth on her, unprotected. Towards the end, she pulled me out, and with the condom on, started to perform oral. Eventually, she pulled the condom off, and finished unprotected oral. I noticed, that at one point, she spat down into the opening of my urethra.
Soon, I started getting the "classic" HSV symptoms: tingling in the lower back area, the jaw area, and small blisters in groin area. I also, developed two small spots on the inside of my lower lip, that eventually went away, and have not returned.
Subsequent testing:
10/18 PPH, all STDs tested, to establish I didn’t already have something. All negative, no fresh lesions to swab. At 3 month mark. Planned Parenthood, HSV 1&2 (IGG) testing. Blood hemolyzed in transit, had to come in for redraw at 3.25 months. Still negative. Tried again at 4 months, also PPH, same tests. All non-detect.
Following a legal massage at 5 months, small blisters have also shown up on my arms.
At the 6 month mark, tried different clinic, lab on demand place, tested for HSV 1&2, and HIV. Again, all non-detect. Thinking I am in the clear, I bought some trail mix. I’ve been avoiding high arginine foods as much as possible. The very next day, several blisters pop up on both my inner thighs. I believe that given my symptoms I have herpes, and am someone who seroconverts slowly. I know that the only way to be sure, is to have swab testing done. But, I have an erratic schedule so it’s hard to schedule around random lesions.
So, my main question is, do you know of anyone that offers a test at home type of kit for a herpes swab, that is reliable? And I've already spent a bit on all this testing, with nothing to show for it. Also, how long after appearing and left alone, is a herpes blister a viable candidate for swabbing?
Thoughts, recommendations? Other culprits to consider? I’m not sure what my next move is