Welcome back to the forum. But I doubt I can help much. You had complete answers from Dr. Hook a week ago, in quite some detail. Anxiety problems typically don't resolve with improved understanding of the facts.
Questions about oral HPV, oral sex, and throat cancer have been common on the forum. Below are links to two threads that discuss these issues; at least one of them has links to still other threads.
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/HPV-and-oral-sex/show/1515473
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/Oral-HPV-Cancer-Risk/show/1512873
Oral HPV is one tenth as common as genital HPV, and generally clears up on its own without ever causing cancer or other problems. It really isn't something to be worried about. There are several reasons experts do not currently recommend testing for oral HPV: test performance is not standardized; people with negative results may still have oral HPV; people with postive results may not actually be infected, and even if they are, nothing can be done; and a positive result does not necessarily mean someone is at increased risk for cancer, for transmission to partners, or anything else. Maybe future research will change things, but that's the current state of scientific knowledge.
Because of those issues, I have no experience with the OraQuick test -- I have never recommended it for my patients nor had the opportunity to evaluate someone's test result. I cannot advise further about it.
As for your concern about infecting partners, forget it. Your current or future sex partners are not going to be at either higher or lower risk of catching HPV as a result of having sex with you, either oral or genital, regardless of your test result.
And by the way, your apparent hand warts are irrelevant. Common hand warts are caused by different HPV types than those that cause genital or most oral infections.
HHH, MD