OK, After reading the responses here I pressed him for more details and he told me that the doctor swabbed his lip and it came back positive for herpes. The doctor said it was "most likely" HSV2 because of the severity of the sore throat he had. However, it appears a typing test was not done. So, he went to his doctor, had a blood typing test and it turned out to actually be HSV1. So much for the doctor's original diagnosis, eh? Well, this does change things, at least we have solid information now.
Thanks for all of your help and it just goes to show to everyone out there that you can't know for sure until you see a health care provider and get the right kind of tests. Just because someone (even a doctor) thinks something is true does not make it so. :-)
How was he diagnosed as having hsv2 orally? Lesion culture and typing from an oral lesion?
Hsv2 orally doesn't often happen but when it does - it tends not to reoccur ( statistically it only reoccurs once in a lifetime ). It also only sheds about 1% of days if you are hiv negative so that's why it's so unlikely that it will be transmitted to a partner either orally or genitally.
Most folks who have hsv2 orally also have it genitally whether they've noticed genital ob's or not - unless of course their only contact was performing oral sex on the person they contracted it from. Just something to consider when deciding what precautions, if any you want to utilize in your relationship. Unfortunately without any obvious genital lesions the only way to confirm this would be from daily pcr swabbing of the genital area to check for hsv2. Perhaps keep an eye out on clinicaltrials.gov to see if any studies are offered in your area - otherwise it gets quite costly to swab yourself at home for a few weeks ( well your partner in this case ).
grace
Thanks for the heads-up about the FAQs. I have not looked at them for some time. It sounds like this one needs updating, and perhaps others do as well.
To the extent that oral HSV-2 is relatively uncommon, the reply is correct. But when oral HSV-2 is known to be present, clearly it can be transmitted to a partner's genitals. It probably is uncommon: asymptomatic shedding appears to be quite a bit less common for oral HSV-2 than for genital HSV-2; and most STD specialists do not recall ever seeing someone with genital HSV-2 that apparently was acquired by oral sex. (To my knowledge, I have not seen such a case.) But in truth, this is hard to know with certainty, because most people with STD have had multiple exposures, and it is pretty uncommon for people who have received oral sex to have had no genital sex recently. In that case, it is easy to assume genital acquistion when the infection acutally resulted from oral sex.
There are no data on oral-oral HSV-s transmission by kissing. I imagine in occurs, but it must be rare.
With genital HSV-2, the maximum frequency of viral shedding, and therefore transmission to partners, occurs in the first several months after acquiring the infection. To my knowledge, this has not been studied for oral HSV-2. However, you should assume it to be the case. In other words, you probably are at higher risk now than you will be later for acquiring your partner's infection. For either kissing or oral-genital contact (indeed for any contact between your partner's mouth and any part of your body), be especially alert in the next few months for symptomatic recurrences.
I hope this helps. Thanks for your kind words about the forum.
HHH, MD