Hi,
Was in a large midwest city at a strip club and had unprotected oral sex (gave and received) for 15 minutes or so (each way) with a stripper (African American). Came home and had persistent cough, which progressively intensified and became a sore throat by days 5-7....has not gone away (day 10), but improving. No genital signs/sicknesses (there was some rubbing, but no penetration).
Have read much of the online information, particularly regarding high-risk transmission of oral chlamydia/gonorrhea. Questions include the following:
1) What are the realistic % chances/likelihood of getting gonorrhea (or any other STD) thru cunnilingus or receipt of oral sex?
2) If contracting an oral STD such as gonorrhea, will the bacteria clear by itself over time (both the symptoms and the disease itself)?
3) On off-chance one has obtained an oral STD, what are the long-term risks? Could this spread to blood/nervous systom? If so, why isn't there a larger prevalance of this across USA?
4) Any possibility of passing oral STD to girlfriend (only sexual partner for past 10 yrs outside of above)?
5) Have tried to find a clinic to get a simple test, but finding it very difficult to find a clinic/lab to administer a throat culture, outside of a private doctor. Should I look for an Eyes, Ears, Mouth doctor, or can an urologist handle all of above?
6) Is there a test/treatment w/o involving a doctor visit (CVS or other system)?
7) Any other concerns, such as NGU, Trich, others (she had no visible sores, oral or vaginal so have avoided HSV questions)?
8) Recommendations on how to proceed? Do I need a full battery of tests?
Thank you very much.