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Oral sex on female w/ HSV-2

I'm a 27 year old woman with HSV-2.  I have had the virus for two and a half years, though I believe I was reinfected a year ago.  I am currently taking 400 mg of acyclovir twice a day as suppressive therapy.  I'd like to know the statistical risk that I  will give HSV2 to a partner if he performs oral sex on me.  Currently I'm dating a guy who has had HSV-1 cold sores, but who has tested negative for HSV-2.  Additionally, he is concerned about the risk of giving himself HSV2 genitally if he uses his hands on me, and then touches himself.  Thanks very much!
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I'm not sure why you think you were reinfected - you already had hsv2 from the sounds of things - you aren't going to get it again "worse" or anything like that.

I encourage you and your partner to read the herpes handbook at www.westoverheights.com . It's filled with terrific info to help you two decide what precautions you want to take together.

If you two did nothing but avoid sex during obvious genital symptoms in yourself - your male partner would be about 96% likely each year NOT to contract hsv2 from you.  If you took daily suppressive therapy with valtrex ( the only antiviral with published info on this so far ) his risk would be cut in half.  Throw in condoms too and he's about 99% likely each year NOT to contract hsv2 from you.  We don't have the same stats for oral sex but suppressive therapy reduces your risk of shedding the virus which also helps to reduce his risk from oral sex. You can contract hsv2 orally but it doesn't happen very often. Only about 3% of all oral herpes infections are due to hsv2.  If you two feel you need more than just suppressive therapy reducing his risk - consider barrier protection for oral sex.  

He's also very unlikely to transmit hsv2 to himself just thru touching you and then himself.

grace
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I've tried searching the forums for an answer to my question, but I haven't found a precise, on-point result.   I'd really appreciate an answer, thanks!
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