Oral vaginal sex, please help!

[Kjsjyyg]

Thanks in advance for your thoughts.

10 days ago I licked the vagina of a married massage therapist mutually. I know I  have hsv 1 and had no signs the night I did that. 8 hours later I had a normal sore under my tongue and I was stressed and anxious and had a minor fever the next day and went to an urgent care place. They put me on an antibiotic just in case of any other exposure. I've felt on since then, with only a minor scratchy throat from nasal drip, but here's my worry...

7 days after me being on the anti biotic my girlfriend returned home. We kissed briefly and the next day she woke up feeling sick with a sore throat and congestion. Note she was around high school students 24/7 for a week.  Her throat is now worse and she is heading to the doctors tonight!

Could this be an std!!? Or a chain of events that's is just making me paranoid??! Please provide some guidance! Please.

[Life360_Dave]

correct

[Kjsjyyg]

Yes, but her sore throat reaction 8 hours after kissing shouldn't be related? Correct?

[Life360_Dave]

Your paranoia is not unjustified. If you were single the advise would be to wait for any symptoms to develop before getting tested but when it comes to a long term partner the risk does exist for them to be exposed. Oral genital contact is a risk for herpes and syphilis bottom line.

[Kjsjyyg]

Thanks for the opinion. So I should error on the side of paranoia? I mean my girlfriends reaction was too quick to have been from me, correct?

[Life360_Dave]

Hi, yoiu licking her with out your lips touching is not much of any std risk and since you already have hsv1 you cant contact it again. Her licking your penis pretty much the same. To contract std,s either oral or genital there needs to be some direct insertive oral or genital contact.