Can a man have two relatively large open sores on his
penisCancer - penis
Curvature of the penis
Penis care (uncircumcised)
Penis pain and it not be an STD?
His ex-wife had herpes before they dated. From what I see on your site, it was probably a type 1 breakout; she never had breakouts during their 9 yr marriage. Divorced 5 years. No girlfriends.
Six months into monogamous relationship with me: we have
sexBuccal smear
Causes of sexual dysfunction
Child abuse - sexual
Delayed ejaculation
Erection problems
Female sexual dysfunction
Inhibited sexual desire
Orgasmic dysfunction
Puberty and adolescence
Rape
Safe sex at the tail end of my period and it feels a little grainy to him (in areas that did not later develop sores). I had no symptoms but had self-treated successfully for a yeast infection 3 weeks prior (
diflucan). The day before my period started, I got lymph
nodesLymph node biopsy
Swollen glands
Swollen lymph nodes in the groin
Swollen lymph nodes under arm in my
neckCervical spondylosis
Head and neck glands
Herpes zoster (shingles) on the neck and cheek
Irritated seborrheic kerotosis - neck
Lymph tissue in the head and neck.
Melanoma - neck
Neck lump
Neck pain
Neck pulse
Neck x-ray
Oral cancer (sore) that took several days to go down, no other symptoms.
Day after we had that slightly granular feeling
sexBuccal smear
Causes of sexual dysfunction
Child abuse - sexual
Delayed ejaculation
Erection problems
Female sexual dysfunction
Inhibited sexual desire
Orgasmic dysfunction
Puberty and adolescence
Rape
Safe sex , he felt some tingling when urinating, and wondered if he'd irritated his urethra with soap. Two days later the tip of his penis looked red and sore. A day after that, two sores appeared, one on the top of his shaft and one on the other side, not folliculitis. These sores looked big...the red circle about the size of a dime, with an open wet area in the middle. The area around the urethra still looked quite red.
His doctor diagnosed herpes just based on visual inspection (no culture done...grr). Put him on Famvir. Did bloodwork: Herpes AB (Type 1&2) IgM (I know what you think of that), Herpes Simplex IgG, Herpes AB Type 2 IgG. All negative. BF started to get a discharge. Doc put him on single dose Zithromax. Couple days later, things looked a lot better (ten days from start of symtoms). Then all clear.
Four days into his symptoms, I got a thick white discharge, my doc saw clue cells, put me on Flagyl. Chlamydia test negative. No signs of STD.
No problems since all that except that BF complains of chafing on each side of the underside of his shaft during intercourse fairly often. No sign of yeast, though, and normal otherwise.
So my doctor told me today that it is extremely unlikely that the symptoms I describe in my BF would NOT be an STD. She said it would be "awfully unusual" if it weren't (though she said maybe if his immune system was lowered and he was "susceptible". He did get shingles on his waist 5 months prior). But my BF claims complete faithfulness. He's a quiet geek type, healthy, no meds, 41 yrs old. These sores looked pretty nasty, seriously. We are NOT talking about a couple pimples. Is it possible for a man (good hygiene, circumcized, hadn't changed soaps, no spermicide or other irritants) to develop an infection like this out of nowhere? How is it possible? We do have some trust issues, and this is something that concerns me. If there is a way he could get something like this nonsexually, I'd be relieved. I'm going to ask him to see if he can get a HerpeSelect test, but if his wife had type 1, then he's probably clear. Thank you.
HHH, MD
As I understand it, I can carry HSV-2 and have never had symptoms, right? (If I am actually the source of the herpes)
NGU: that is urethritis if gonorrhea has been ruled out. If he had gonorrhea or NGU, would his single dose of Zithromax have wiped it out? Would my course of Flagyl have wiped it out in me? I see that NGU can present in females as excess discharge, like I had.
It seems as if he would have had to have gotten anything like that (NGU, gonorrhea) from someone else, though, right?
I think he and I will have to either go to the health department or planned parenthood to get these tests (like the HSV)...we both have clueless doctors. This incident actually took place 18 months ago...it's just that yesterday was my first chance to talk to my own doctor, which raised these questions. He has not had any sort of outbreak since then. I would think if he got HSV-2 from me and had an outbreak, that he would have had other outbreaks since then, right?
Do you know why he would be complaining so often about being "chafed" during intercourse now, when he never was at the start of our relationship? We use lube.
Thank you!!!
Yes, you certainly could have HSV-2 infection, as indicated by a positive blood test, without ever noticing symptoms. That is the normal outcome of genital herpes; more than half of all people with positive HSV-2 antibody tests have no recognized outbreaks. But everybody with a positive test has active virus from time to time in the genital area--i.e., asymptomatic viral shedding--and can transmit the infection to previously uninfected sex partners.
As far as other STDs are concerned, it's all in the past and it simply will never be possible to figure out what was going on, who was infected first, etc. Azithromycin isn't perfect against either gonorrhea or chlamydia, but it really doesn't matter; those infections almost always clear up on their own within a few months.
Sorry, I don't have any thoughts about "chafing" during sex; I'm an STD expert, not a sexologist.
Best wishes-- HHH, MD
1) It could have been herpes. Proper blood tests will show.
2) If it was not herpes, and not a fixed drug eruption, then it was either an STD or something else. You said there are other causes for non-STD related genital ulcers. Are there any others you can mention?
Thank you!
Good luck.
2) Don't fixate on fixed drug eruption; it was a wild stab. Your partner's medication history doesn't support that. In addition to herpes, the main sexually acquired genital ulcer diseases are syphilis and chancroid; the latter is very rare in the US. There are many other non-STD possibilities, but individually each one is rare. A dermatologist would be better at listing them that I could be.
HHH, MD
This seems like a good link for comparing tests:
http://www.ashastd.org/pdfs/blood_test.pdf
Ann
HHH, MD
HSV-2 can lay dormant for even years, and suddenly erupt.
Can an HSV-1 infection of the genitals also lay dormant for years before making its one appearance?
When HSV-2 does this, the infection is not "dormant" between acquisition and the first recognized outbreak. Almost everybody in fact has outbreaks from the very start; it's just that many of them are not symptomatic. Therefore, STD/herpes experts would not use the term "dormant" in this context. The infection is fully active, just not symptomatic.
HHH, MD