38 year old male. I have persistent symptoms that don't seem definitive, and doctors have all given up. Am having a hard time with anxiety, waiting months and months to get tested.
Previously tested negative for HIV and HSV-2 (oral HSV-1 +), about 7 months after last possible exposure.
April, went to girlfriend in Japan, had unprotected
vaginalAnterior vaginal wall repair
Causes of vaginal itching
Culture - endocervix
Hydrocele
Hysterectomy
Transvaginal ultrasound
Vaginal bleeding between periods
Vaginal bleeding during pregnancy
Vaginal bleeding in pregnancy
Vaginal cysts
Vaginal discharge sexBuccal smear
Causes of sexual dysfunction
Child abuse - sexual
Delayed ejaculation
Erection problems
Female sexual dysfunction
Inhibited sexual desire
Orgasmic dysfunction
Puberty and adolescence
Rape
Safe sex . A 4-day trip. I've seen her 2 previous times (a week or so each), over the last year. We've had mostly protected
sexBuccal smear
Causes of sexual dysfunction
Child abuse - sexual
Delayed ejaculation
Erection problems
Female sexual dysfunction
Inhibited sexual desire
Orgasmic dysfunction
Puberty and adolescence
Rape
Safe sex , but slipped now and then, and especially this last time. I noticed (too late) that she had some kind of "pimple" on her upper thigh, about 2 inches from vagina. Was a single bump with no redness, as far as I could see.
I do not know her STD status. She claims not to have anything, but as far as I can tell has never really been tested, and says ambiguous/contradictory things.
On the last day of the trip (day 4), I had some
testicleTesticle lump
Testicle pain
Testicle ultrasound pain, mostly on the left side. It was mild, and I mainly noticed it when walking down stairs.
The pain lasted about 4-5 days, then I had some general
groinGroin lump
Groin pain
Groin stretch
Jock itch
Swollen lymph nodes in the groin itchingCauses of vaginal itching
Eye burning - itching and discharge
Itching
Jock itch
Muscle twitching
Vaginal itching and discomfort for the next month. No rash that I could see. I started to worry about STDs, specifically Herpes (because of her bump), but also HPV and even HIV.
I had external hemorrhoid surgery about a week after I got back. I mentioned the itching and discomfort, but the surgeon said everything looked normal. At the 2 week followup he also said I looked normal.
I seemed to recover fine from the surgery, but I've never felt "normal" since the last day of my trip, just over 8 weeks ago.
Late May: one month out, I had more pronounced discomfort, including hypersensitivity of the penis, especially the head (e.g., very conscious of movement when walking) and some burning. The burning was mild, but constant, and did not seem to get worse during urination or ejaculation. No discharge that I could see.
At this point my worries escalated. I couldn't see a doctor right away, so they gave me Zithromax (1g) and Valtrex. Burning went away instantly (this symptom lasted about 4-5 days total).
Also went to an STD clinic, and tested negative for Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, and Syphilis.
By the time I got to see a urologist, symptoms were nearly gone, though never entirely. Always had hypersensitivity, discomfort, occasional itching. I ended up going to two urologists. One said my prostate was "a little soft" on one side, but he didn't see any urethritis (no visible bacteria in the urine). The other said my DRE was normal, and didn't think it was bacterial either. Neither found any lumps or other abnormalities.
Over the last few days, I've had increasing testicle discomfort, to the point of taking analgesics for it, and some more hypersensitivity. There is no obvious swelling or rash.
I plan to retest for HSV and HIV, but have to wait 2 more months! Could diffuse testicle pain be viral? I'm BEGGING her to test for HIV/HSV/HPV, but she can't or won't.
What could this be??
I'm "treating" this as psychiatric for now: I'm exercising, eating right, and generally trying to ignore it and get on with life, plus taking a bit of Klonapin at night to make sure I sleep.
I'm almost at 10 weeks now (11 if you count from the beginning of the exposure). I am retesting for everything at 11/12 weeks for sure (1st week of July), and again at 16 weeks. If negative then, maybe I'll start to relax.
I'm not overly concerned about HIV -- much more worried about Herpes/HPV. The AIDS people say check at 3 and 6 months, so I'll go back and test for everything yet again at 24 weeks.
I did go to a clinic today to check out a tiny bump. I'm sure I would not have noticed this if I hadn't been looking so hard because of the Herpes scare. It was so tiny I was afraid they'd laugh at me for showing it to them.
They were very professional, and didn't laugh :-) They thought at first it might have fluid, then that it might be a wart. In the end they decided (after consultation with the senior guy there) that it was "probably nothing" (i.e., a harmless pimple or papule; they were able to "stretch it out" without feeling a hard bump [wart] or it popping [vesicle]). They said occasionaly pimple-like things are normal, but they expect it to go away, and said come back in a couple weeks if it doesn't.
So there's a nice concrete focus for my anxiety...
They looked at another area I thought had changed color/stretched out and likewise pronounced it "nothing".
They also said it looked like I had folliculitis of the groin, which could explain some of the symptoms, particularly the "heat" and itching. He said it looked like I was getting over a fungal infection, and asked if I'd recently had a rash. I didn't think so; I was pretty obsessively checking in the first couple weeks (mirrors were involved), and I often checked for a rash when I felt the itching get worse, but never saw anything.
Can't help but think I might have missed the rash, or it was so mild I didn't notice it. It's possible I have what would have been asymptomatic Herpes, and the actual symptoms were from something else (like something fungal).
Well, if I do have Herpes, at least it's looking like a mild case. In any case it's hard to maintain a high level of anxiety for weeks at a time (especially with so much "normal" stress going on in other life areas), and I'm acclimating to it. Sleeping at night is really helping. If I am eventually diagnosed, it will be almost anticlimactic. I hope I don't have *both* HSV and HPV; I've been reading on HPP about lots of people in that camp...