Please help!! I'm look for a second opinion

[Help0099]

Please help!! I had oral sex with a transexual I used a condom during the oral sex then switched to anal I used lub but didn't change condoms. Anal went on for about  2min or so then i stopped I realized it wasn't my cup of tea thing. The condom look like it didn't break I saw blood on the condom so rushed and took the condom off. I washed up with anti bactiura soap and water and dryed off. 2 days later I felt itching and burning sensation around genitals and it burned when I peed. I went and saw my urologist and did blood work everything can back negative except for HSV 1 he told me it was to soon to show HSV 2 or HIV i know i had HSV1 already .He said it could been a reaction do to strees and guilt  of the encounter I'm on valtrex now it's been 2 1/2 weeks and in still feeling flu like symptoms. I feel weak and headache, feeling of ill no fever no chills. My question is

1. During oral sex could  there have been holes in the condom before going to anal sex?

2. When cleaning myself  with soap and water could it have went inside my urethra?

I'm not sure of its my outbreak that causing my symptoms or if its something else. I don't have any bumps or liaisons or anything my lower back hurts every now and then and I think my lymph node in my neck might be swollen. I went and did an oral hiv test on day 18 that came back negative but I know that's too soon. Can any help please I'm really stressed out

[Vance2335]

What virus?

My answer to #2 was yes saop and water could get inside your uretha.

We are not going to go around and around with this because you have anxiety over the event. You really had no risk. Believe it

[Help0099]

I thought soap kills the virus ?

[Vance2335]

1. No
2. Yes