Protected Anal Sex

[kyledoogie85]

I am a gay male who is STD free and am careful about using condoms and who I have sex with.  Today I went on a date with a guy and at the end of the night I had sex with him.  I usually do not bottom during anal sex.  This was the first time I bottomed in five years.  Well we did use condoms and plenty of lubricant and he was respectful when i told him to slow down so it wasn't rough and I wasn't in any pain.  Also we did not have oral sex just anal sex and I received.  When I got home I used the restroom and noticed that there was light bleeding on the toilet paper. I took a shower and after I used the paper towel the bleeding had disappeared.  I was wondering if my risk of an std was high because of the light bleeding even though I had protected anal sex with condoms and lube.  The guy I had sex with had an std test in January for his job and had not had sex in four months.

[auntiejessi]

The bleeding was most likely from it being so long since you bottomed, and since he wore a condom, it doesn't increase your chances of getting an std.

Aj

[needadvise0615]

The bleeding is most commonly from slight tearing/stretching.

your activities are no more at risk than anyone else who properly used a condom, if you are certain it stayed on and was "safe sex"....condoms are 99.8% effective if I recall correctly.


-NA

[kyledoogie85]

Well he ejaculated on my back and I think a little ejaculate dripped to my anus. Should I be worried?

[auntiejessi]

Nope.  Most stds die very quickly outside the body.

Aj