Pull out scared

hi i am scared out of my head, i dont want to talk to any of my mates about it, i was pissed and horny i got with a girl and i started gettin it on wit her and be4 i *** i pulled out and done it elsewhere but i am scared ******** now i mean i dont even know what i was doing, is there anything i should do or get her to do?

[H. Hunter Handsfield, M.D.]

As far as STD goes, there's not much you can do now but wait and see if symptoms appear.  And I'm not sure what you would "get her to do"--you don't know she is infected with anything.  Do you think she is at particularly high risk for having an STD (multiple partners, etc)?  Are you?  Perhaps she is just as frightened as you are.  Why not speak with her?  You could discuss whether either or both of you should be checked, depending on past diagnoses, current symptoms, and so on.

Good luck-- HHH, MD