I remember your username but have not looked at your previous thread. Brief answers to your questions:
1,2) No harm will come to you from having sex with genital warts (assuming you still have them) and it will not make your warts recur. Also no harm to your commercial partner, if it's only a hand job. If you have vaginal sex, you should tell your partner(s) about your warts, if you believe you still are infected. Even with commercial partners, it is not right to have sex with a potentially transmissible STD without warning, so that she can decide whether or not to proceed.
3,4) You cannot catch any STD from a hand job and oral sex is low risk and you don't need testing unless you develop symptoms to suggest a new STD.
5) You should feel guilty. The risk of oral sex if you have warts is low, but you should inform your partners.
6) As I said above, in general oral sex carries much lower STD risk than vaginal sex. But once your warts have cleared up, and if there has been no recurrence after a few months, there is no reason not to resume vaginal sex.
Thanks for the thanks about hte forum. But note that this is not an emotional support site. Don't get in the habit of returning here for reassurance every time you have sex, commercial or otherwise.
Good luck-- HHH, MD
I recieved unproctected oral sex from a sex worker I was not aware of HIV transmission through oral sex at that time. The past few weeks had been a real hell. I did not remember seeing blood on my penis but after 6 week I tested negative for HIV. I hope all are made aware that unprocted oral sex does carry a risk although there has not been any reported case yet.