I am a 20 year old male. I had my only sexual encounter almost 2 years ago when I was 18 in October, 2011. I did have unprotected rubbing of genitals, but no inserting into the vagina. I did have unprotected oral sex from her, and performed a little bit of oral sex on her. This was around October 20th 2011. Around this time i was also lifting a lot of weights, and my have gone a little to hard on some lower body exercise (probably has nothing to do with it.) But one day i did feel like i did leg presses a little bit too hard and may have hurt something.
After this, no pain or symptoms at all... Until December 31st 2011. On this day, i started to get random pains in my right testicle/groin while walking around. it wasn't too bad, but every once in a while i would get random pains in these areas. I was in Spain for holiday, and waited to see a doctor until I got home.
When i finally got into a doctor he took a couple tests. He tested for torsion, and then took a urinalysis. These were both negative. I was having other problems at the time, and feeling all around terrible, so i was tested for all sorts of things. The only thing i came back positive for was mono.
A while after this i had peeling skin on the penis head and it started to peel. now, for the past two years almost i have had the same symptoms. I feel like my whole life has fallen apart.
My main concerns are a constant groin/testicle pain (they never feel normal anymore), I am 20 years old and can barely get an erection. In the past 2 years i hardly ever wake up with a morning erection, when it used to happen all the time. I struggle with ejaculating way too pre-maturely when i never used too. I have a very weak urine stream, struggle to start urinating and dribbling after urine. I can always feel bumps in my groin (lymph nodes) on the left it is longer oval shaped bump, on the right it feels like a pea sized ball. I sometimes get very sharp pains in my stomach, and also sometimes in my anus (feeling above or around my tailbone.) I don't have regular bowel movements anymore, and usually ill go days without one, and they are not solid, or fall apart while being flushed. Sometimes the head of my penis appears very red, usually after urinating or ejaculating it will turn blotchy red in some parts. There are also a couple of bumps on the head of my penis that i am afraid may be HPV. My urethra always looks like it is swollen, and has lips... sometimes (especially after ejaculation) I feel like i have some discharge or some leaking from penis. it burns sometime after ejaculation. When my penis is not erect, most of the time it is very hard and shrivled even while flaccid (never happened before).
more problems ive had are almost constant stuffy nose. Also sometiems when i eat i will get painful bumps on the roof of my mouth, that go away after a while. One of my most worrying symptoms is that almost 80% of the time when i look at my tongue it looks like it has a white coating and it a little bit furry. (NEVER WAS LIKE THIS BEFORE.) I have tried mouth washes and tongue scrapers, but this never goes away. I also have some bumps under my tongue, and one on the back of my throat.
I have been told my tongue/mouth looks normal. Been tested for all STD's (negative). I have been diagnosed with prostatitis. Azithromycin made me feel completely better at first, but all symptoms came right back. On levaquin right now, and still feeling hopeless.
I try to explain to people (my parents) how miserable i am and i just wanna die. Im pursuing a job as a chef, but some days its so hard to keep going on. Its 100% in the back of my mind that i cant date, am diseased, something is terrible wrong with me and contagious. At 20, i feel like i should be dating and happy, but instead i hate myself and have all these problems.. Ive seen many doctors, and urologists, and ENT's as well.
Can somebody please please help me. I feel so dirty and so bad. Most days i cry a good majority of the day, and most days i just feel like i want to die. My dream has always been to meet an awesome girl, get married and have a family and live this life the best i can. But now i have had all these problems for over 2 years almost, and it seems nobody can/will help me. I have started dating girls, but always distance myself because i freak out about my unresolved/unanswered problems..
while i do appreciate the reply, and i do realize some of my issues may be anxiety, stress, and such. A red rash with bumps, white furry looking tongue, and constant pain in my groin.. are not mental symptoms.
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