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STD Scare

Well I recently performed oral sex, first time I ever I ever did and it lasted 2-5 min. I am not sexually active and have never performed but she has, however she said she was all for protection and does not have STDS. We didn't have sex. About 2 hours afterwards I devolved a small pimple underneath my tongue (frenulum) and after research I found out it can be a just damaged however I am not sure. Furthermore one part of my lip looked dry and later on I saw small line (barely visable) was near the inside. I am in total panic and I read that the risk is very small. I also read that symptoms can be unrelated because it's to early for anything to develop. Can I have acquired an std? Or is it a reaction from me performing for the first time? Thank you
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I would say you're fine, 2 hours is much too quick for anything to come on. Your exposure was low risk, a lot of people say oral is. Don't get me wrong, oral still spreads stds and some form of protection is always recommended (condoms, dental dams) for it. But when you really "crunch the numbers" your exposure was low risk. The bump on your toung is probably the same things we all get, and has probably been there all day but you're just noticing it now due to the paranoia. If you look hard enough while in the wrong mind set you can find ANYTHING. With the bump and line I'm going to assume you're worried about hsv?
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Thank you for the reply! And Yeah that's what I am thinking however I'm almost certain I didn't have a "pimple" like thing underneath my tongue (which is red not white but the line is white) nor my lip having a small line and feeling pain. I am concerned for hiv and herpies because of pore like symptoms. During the actually thing it was really hard for me to "go down" I used a lot of spit though etc. Which mightve been a wrong thing.My main concern is not catching anything especially since this is my first time. I don't really know the girl long enough and she is not a virgin and has had men before me. Should I get tested ?
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I totally understand your concern but honestly you shouldn't worry at all herpes is very unlikely as herpes you find on the genitalia is usually hsv-2 which does not like the mouth very much, it's harder to transfer and if it is transferred it does not often break out on the flip side hsv-1, generally found on the mouth (cold sores) has been known to be on the genitals due to the influx in oral sex but does not break out or shed often at all so your chances of catching anything this would be very small. And that's IF she had it. You're real world risk is so small I wouldn't even worry, and trust me I do! Unless HIV is really common in the community, I wouldnt have even have thought about it.
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So should I get tested at all? When would you recommend? And from my understand it can be a canker sore which take a while to devolp. Hopefully that doesn't mean it was there during the actually oral sex( which I'm pretty sure was not) it literally was 2-5 min. And I did not see anything from her and she told me no one else told her about this kinda issue and it was only me. I seriously thank you for answering to all these. I'm just worried because canker spore can react from underlying diseases but from what you said it was to short of a time for the disease to set in ? And hv1 or 2 wouldn't be shown this early right?
In my opinion, the best testing time is after 6 weeks
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