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STD from handjob with saliva

Sorry that this question has been asked before, but I wanted to get direct confirmation.  I cheated on my girlfriend and do not want to give her STDs.  Two occurrences as follows:

A few months ago I received a handjob from a clothed woman.  No saliva or vaginal secretions.

Last night I received a handjob from a woman.  She used her saliva to lubricate my penis.  While this was going on I used my right hand to finger her.  I then used my left hand to masturbate and ejaculate on her.  At one point she was going to give me head but I stopped her just in time I think (at worst her lips touched my penis head).

1. Could I have gotten any STD or HIV?

2. Should I be tested asap?  I'm worried that if I wait too long I can pass something to my girlfriend and go undetected myself.

As crazy as this sounds, I want to get engaged with my girlfriend and knowing that I might now be carrying an STD is a big weight on my shoulders .  My girlfriend goes for her annual pap smear and I believe they do not check for STDs, so it is very important that I am disease free.  I really need reassurance and peace of mind.

Thanks.
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1. No
2. No

You had no risk
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I read some more posts and I'm a little confused with why the STD - international seems to be more cautious.  Jose says there is a risk of STDs during mutual masturbation:

http://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs---International/RISK-OF-ANY-STDs/show/1563986

Is he being super conservative or there is a risk?
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you did not have any risk for any std's from what you've described.

are you talking to a counselor about all of this?

grace
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Hi Grace, thanks for your response.  I agree, I should see a counselor.  I know I have a lot of guilt influencing my anxiety and I also think I have other things to resolve since my anxiety in general has not been normal over the years and I have been compulsive about sex at times and then regretted it.  

All that said, I would really appreciate some understanding of the discrepancy between Jose from STD - International and Hanfield, Hook, and others.  I just don't know which side to take. Jose believes it is a risk and he doesn't seem to say that the risk is miniscule, but rather a real one.  
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sorry... ignore the last posting.  i shouldn't focus so much on one outlier posting.  i'll take the recurring theme that mutual masturbation carries no risk.  thanks!
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