STD or HIV Exposure

[javier61]

One of my best friend ask me a question, i sincerely don't know what to tell him,,, I found some answers for my questions here so, i hope someone could help him..

A couples of days ago he had a sexual encounter with a 45 yr woman, hes only 30... As he told me, she haven't had sexual intercourse since 3 years ago with her ex-husband... But after finishing the intercourse, HE FOUND BLOOD IN HIS CONDOM.. He tells me its not his blood... Can this means its her blood??? What are the riskss of this exposure... He told me that in the middle of the intercourse, he changed his condom, to be sure he was having safe intercourse... WHAT RISKS he could have for having blood of her in the condom???? I really dont know how can this be, but I know you guys could help him...
Let me know
Thanks

[auntiejessi]

Was the blood inside the condom, or on the outside?  If it was inside, it was from him, and he most certainly needs to get that checked out.

If it was outside, it was hers, and she might have just started her period.

Since he was smart enough to use a condom, and even changed it in the middle, his chances of anything are very small, even if it was her blood.

However, since there isn't any way for her blood to get into the condom, if it was his, he needs to get it checked.

Has he ejaculated since?  Has he seen blood?  Blood in the sperm doesn't usually mean an std, but it could be another problem he needs to get addressed.

AJ

[javier61]

Well According to him, the blood was inside the condom, and he said that he has ejaculated after that, cause he thought it could be from his sperm and haven't seen nothing of blood...

Could that been from her??? You said that even if it was her blood the chances are small right??

Well Let me know!!
Thanks AJ, youve helped me and know your helping one of my friends..
Couldn't ask for more of you! Angel from heaven!
When someone needs answers, moral support, your always there!
Thanks,

[auntiejessi]

I just don't see how her blood could have gotten inside the condom.  And if it were from her, it would reason that there would have also been blood outside the condom as well, right?

Aj

[javier61]

I think you are right!!, Maybe it was from him.... but he says that he has ejaculated after that and nothing of blood...

But if its from her... and the blood somehow, got inside, what could be the risks????
You said that if it was from her, still the chances are small..

I really dont know what more to tell him, but i think you are right!! but if it was from her??

[auntiejessi]

I don't know what it could be from, but if he sees blood again, he needs to get checked.

And her blood would still have to get into his urethra, and I just don't see that happening.  Even if she had HIV, and he had unprotected sex with her, his chances would be something like 1 in 2000 of getting it from her.

For gonorrhea and chlamydia, the bacteria still also has to get into his urethra, and again, I don't see how that could happen.  I really think he needs to not worry, and if he is so concerned, just go get tested (which is never a bad idea anyway).

AJ