Hi,
I have a ? about which STD oral sex has the most risk for. I have read through the archives and I want to make sure I am interpreting what I have read correctly. I'll mention my exposures and why this is a concern for me. I have had 4 receptive oral sex exposures with men, I am a man too. One in 05/09, two in 06/09 and one in 07/09. I have done this before, I am a bi-sexual but for some reason I now have anxiety over these recent exposures. I suspect it's because I promisedto be careful after my physical and negative HIV test in 04/09.
The first two exposures, in mid 05/09 and mid 6/09, with men I didn't know and I don't know anything about their history or health status. Exposures were brief receptive oral sex, less than a min. with no ejac.
The 2nd exposures were with men I met OL and we talked about safety before sex and both men claimed to be STD free. One was no ejac and the other did in my mouth but due to the extensive talks we had I'm pretty sure he was honest about his health. I asked him direct questions and he responded. None of the men had noticeable symptoms open sores, scabs, discharge etc. I look and inspect before I put anything in my mouth.
I want to be clear about the risk of what I could have been exposed to and whether or not these exposures warrant testing for STD's and HIV based on the risk of receptive oral sex.
1 Chlamydia. From what I've read this is a rarely transmitted by performing receptive oral sex. Yes?
2 Gonorrhea. It can happen but usually isn't a big health concern, clear on it's own etc.
3 Herpes. Requires coming into contact with open sores, is rarely transmitted via receptive oral. Yes?
4 Syphilis. Sore needs to be present for transmission to occur, which should be pretty obvious. If it was transmitted it presents with a sore in new infections. No chancre = no infection. Yes?
5 HIV. Low risk. Testing usually isn’t recommended after receptive oral sex.