if there wasn't a lot of lube, not unusual for your anal area to be a little irritated from being fingered there. same as the oils used for massage don't always agree with the delicate anal skin either and will take a few days to stop being irritated. try something as simple as soaking in a bath with some epsom salts and/or some diaper rash cream around your anal area for a few days.
you had no risk for std's. whatever is going on, isn't std related.
we always recommend that if your pants are off, a condom should be on. that way if things unexpectedly go a place you weren't planning, you were protected :)
if you are under 28, have you had your gardasil shot series for hpv yet?
grace
Can u please tell me if there is a risk even if he might have commed in his undies while he was sliding his body against my back...but i do know that at no time did he take them off...and i asked him if that was sex..and he said i dont do sex for any money ...its just a massage
Yea but then why am i feeling down also am still having tingling sensation in my hole from time to time which i did not use to have...am feeling like tht stupid oil was irritated...i am feelinTg so bad am such a bad guy for doing all those things...i feel like i shudnt exist anymore...its just stupid what i did...
No risk on any encounter.