STD risk?

[Intact73]

I have two 'risk' scenarios I'm concerned about.

The first is from mutual masturbation. A guy wanked me and I'm not sure if he had precum on his hands from his own penis when he touched me. He rubbed the head of my penis with his fingers, including the tip (urethra). What is my risk of herpes/HPV from this?

The second is with a guy I know who has had bareback anal sex (insertive) and has never tested for any STI's. He tried to kiss me last week and slipped his tongue in my mouth twice. I had a very sore ulcer on the roof of my mouth. Just under two weeks later and I have had severe headaches, body aches, particularly my neck and shoulders, but going down to my arms and also in my wrist and hands. I don't feel any lymph nodes swollen but the pain moves from area to area and I've also had bad nausea, too. I've not had any fever or rash.

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[Life360_Dave]

No it would not.

[Intact73]

would it make any difference if he had precum ^

[Intact73]

Would it mask any different gif he had premium on his hands when he touched me?

I'm just worried about how I'm feeling - tight throat, aching shoulders, neck arms, headache since Sunday....

[Life360_Dave]

Him giving you is zero risk

[Intact73]

No, this was just a one off and it was him wanking me, not me him.

[Life360_Dave]

If you were constanting giving handjobs like in a massage palor i would consider Whitlow herpes but random acts is not something to be overly concerned about.

[Intact73]

even herpes?

[Life360_Dave]

Hi what your describing is zero risk for contracting any std.

[Intact73]

Not just herpes/hpv, but also risk of any STDs at all