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STDs/Hiv risk
Daer Doctor
Sorry for my bad English…
I’m 32 years old and I come from Poland. I’m adult but I’m responsible like 5 years old kid…
I asked similar question 3 years ago. My problem is that 2 days ago I met up with two escort girls. 1st girl put condom on her dildo and ask me to put it inside her vagina. After few minutes she put fresh condom on my penis and gave me oral sex for few minutes as well. In this time 2nd girl also put fresh condom on other dildo and ask me for the same thing like 1st one. Then I had vaginal sex from behind with 1st lady for few seconds with condom that was used in oral. After that 2nd girl took condom off. She took fresh condom put it on me and I had protected oral and vaginal sex from behind with her also. After couple of seconds 2nd lady took condom off and I ejaculated on their breasts. Since I know I’m paranoic – irresponsible paranoic – I have few questions.
1. Am I at risk of any STDs or HIV?
2. Is touching both dildos that were in those girls vaginas’ is risk for me?
3. Was oral and vaginal sex with them risky?
4. When I had vaginal sex with 1st girl I touched condom on my penis - can vaginal fluids on my fingers expose me for STDs or HIV when I touched my naked penis while ejaculation?
5. When I had vaginal sex from behind with both of them for short time is there possibility for me to get STD of HIV if my scrotum touched their vaginas?
6. I touched my penis after sex so are vaginal fluids on my scrotum any risk?
7. 2nd girl took off condom that had vaginal fluid of 1st girl on it. When she was putting fresh condom on my penis is there any risk that vaginal fluids from used condom appear on her fingers and then appear on fresh condom that she put on my penis and is it risky?
8. SHOULD I MAKE ANY TESTS?
Please answer my questions. I know I’m
stupid but I don’t want to hurt my wife and my 6 months old child. What should I do? Please help!
Sorry for my bad English…
I’m 32 years old and I come from Poland. I’m adult but I’m responsible like 5 years old kid…
I asked similar question 3 years ago. My problem is that 2 days ago I met up with two escort girls. 1st girl put condom on her dildo and ask me to put it inside her vagina. After few minutes she put fresh condom on my penis and gave me oral sex for few minutes as well. In this time 2nd girl also put fresh condom on other dildo and ask me for the same thing like 1st one. Then I had vaginal sex from behind with 1st lady for few seconds with condom that was used in oral. After that 2nd girl took condom off. She took fresh condom put it on me and I had protected oral and vaginal sex from behind with her also. After couple of seconds 2nd lady took condom off and I ejaculated on their breasts. Since I know I’m paranoic – irresponsible paranoic – I have few questions.
1. Am I at risk of any STDs or HIV?
2. Is touching both dildos that were in those girls vaginas’ is risk for me?
3. Was oral and vaginal sex with them risky?
4. When I had vaginal sex with 1st girl I touched condom on my penis - can vaginal fluids on my fingers expose me for STDs or HIV when I touched my naked penis while ejaculation?
5. When I had vaginal sex from behind with both of them for short time is there possibility for me to get STD of HIV if my scrotum touched their vaginas?
6. I touched my penis after sex so are vaginal fluids on my scrotum any risk?
7. 2nd girl took off condom that had vaginal fluid of 1st girl on it. When she was putting fresh condom on my penis is there any risk that vaginal fluids from used condom appear on her fingers and then appear on fresh condom that she put on my penis and is it risky?
8. SHOULD I MAKE ANY TESTS?
Please answer my questions. I know I’m
stupid but I don’t want to hurt my wife and my 6 months old child. What should I do? Please help!
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Sorry, I refuse to answer irrelevant questions that don't matter. You cannot be infected, thus you could not have infected your wife, thus she cannot infect your child by breast feeding. If you think she is otherwise at risk for HIV, you should discuss it with her so she can request testing.
Can You just answer question about transmiting via breast-feeding? And that will be end.
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
I have no other advice, except that this is obviously a serious emotional problem for you. It isn't going to get better except through professional advice. I suggest you see your primary care doctor and frankly describe your fears and issues (don't worry, s/he will keep it confidential from your wife) -- then follow the advice you may get about seeing a mental health professional. (Or go directly to a psychologist or psychiatrist.) I suggest it from compassion, not criticism.
In any case, this forum is not a substitute for that, so there won't be any further discussion on this thread. And you can expect the same from the international forum.
In any case, this forum is not a substitute for that, so there won't be any further discussion on this thread. And you can expect the same from the international forum.
It's me once again...
I'm so depressed because of one thing... I can't tell my wife about my problem but I already had unprotected sex (2 times) with her since "day 0". I don't want to ruin all my life and life off my family. My 6 month daughter is still feeding with breast - can my wife transmit something to her via feeding? I can't stop thinking about this and don't know is it my sense of guilt...
I also received answers on International Expert forum. Why am I still comming back with the same questions?
I'm so depressed because of one thing... I can't tell my wife about my problem but I already had unprotected sex (2 times) with her since "day 0". I don't want to ruin all my life and life off my family. My 6 month daughter is still feeding with breast - can my wife transmit something to her via feeding? I can't stop thinking about this and don't know is it my sense of guilt...
I also received answers on International Expert forum. Why am I still comming back with the same questions?
You're right :) Thank You once again!
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
"Here is all you really need to know: if a bare penis (without a condom) does not enter another person's vagina, rectum, or mouth, there is no risk for STDs, including HIV. You can disregard other kinds of sexual contact."
I haven't changed my mind in the past half hour! And I see no need to give the same advice repeatedly with different words.
I haven't changed my mind in the past half hour! And I see no need to give the same advice repeatedly with different words.
So even if I touched vagina with my scrotum there is no risk?
Thank You very much for Your help!
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Welcome back to the forum.
You are correct -- these questions are pretty much the same as the ones you asked both on this and the international and community STD forums 2 ½ years ago. Did you think the answers might have changed since then? As before, condom protected sex carries little STD risk and hand-genital contact, kissing, and other kinds of body contact are risk free.
Those comments pretty cover all your questions. The various details of the specific events make no difference. The important thing is that your penis did not enter any partner's vagina or rectum except with condoms. The details of condom switching and other aspects of these encounters make no difference. Even with correct condom use, almost always there is some contact with vaginal fluids, but those exposures rarely result in any infeciton.
You do not need testing on account of these specific events. However, all people who are sexually active outside mutually monogamous relationships should be tested for the main STDs (gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis, and HIV) from time to time, like once a year. Therefore, if you haven't been tested recently, you should consider it now, when it's on your mind. Most likely the results will be negative.
Now that you have asked pretty much the same questions several times on various MedHelp forums, always with the same answers, it should not be necessary to do it again. Here is all you really need to know: if a bare penis (without a condom) does not enter another person's vagina, rectum, or mouth, there is no risk for STDs, including HIV. You can disregard other kinds of sexual contact.
Best wishes-- HHH, MD
You are correct -- these questions are pretty much the same as the ones you asked both on this and the international and community STD forums 2 ½ years ago. Did you think the answers might have changed since then? As before, condom protected sex carries little STD risk and hand-genital contact, kissing, and other kinds of body contact are risk free.
Those comments pretty cover all your questions. The various details of the specific events make no difference. The important thing is that your penis did not enter any partner's vagina or rectum except with condoms. The details of condom switching and other aspects of these encounters make no difference. Even with correct condom use, almost always there is some contact with vaginal fluids, but those exposures rarely result in any infeciton.
You do not need testing on account of these specific events. However, all people who are sexually active outside mutually monogamous relationships should be tested for the main STDs (gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis, and HIV) from time to time, like once a year. Therefore, if you haven't been tested recently, you should consider it now, when it's on your mind. Most likely the results will be negative.
Now that you have asked pretty much the same questions several times on various MedHelp forums, always with the same answers, it should not be necessary to do it again. Here is all you really need to know: if a bare penis (without a condom) does not enter another person's vagina, rectum, or mouth, there is no risk for STDs, including HIV. You can disregard other kinds of sexual contact.
Best wishes-- HHH, MD
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