Saliva on penis

[blaisepascal]

I had the company of an escort last night (pretty upscale). I hired her as a private dancer but things got heated up. We kissed superficially but did not frenck kiss (no saliva exchange). I fingered her. She licked my balls briefly and caressed my penis with her hand, using lotion  for lubrication, as well as her saliva, which she collected from her mouth with her fingers. I don't believe her saliva touched the head of my penis, just the shaft, as I was on my guards, but I am not 100% sure. She then gave me a ** using a condom that was properly installed the whole time.
I am healthy, with no cuts, sores, etc. on my penis or fingers. Am I at risk for any STDs because of her saliva and fluids ? I thought that I was practicing safe sex because I read here that saliva is not a vector for transmission but now I am very worried. Should I get  tested ? Thank you.

[blaisepascal]

Thanks again.

[Edward W Hook, MD]

While there may be aa tiny theoretical possiblity of HSV, this risk is purely theoretical and really not a concern.  It is theoretical in the same way that it is theoretically possible you will bestruck by lightening today. EWH

[blaisepascal]

Thank you doctor. Just to be sure, all that you mentioned applies to STIs as well ? Would that hold true for Herpes too ?
Thanks again and best wishes

[Edward W Hook, MD]

Welcome to the Forum.  There is no reason to think that there is risk of any sort for STI or HIV from the events you describe. HI V is transmitted in adults only through unprotected, penetrative sexual activity or introduction of infected material deep into tissue such as occurs with needles sticks or injections.  There is no known risk for HIV infection from kissing  or mutual masturbation and the fact that some of her saliva was used as a lubricant for the events does not change this.  I would not worry and see no need for testing related to the events that you descirbe.

I hope that htis comment is helpful. EWH