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Scare from Oral Sex
Hi Docs,
I went to a message yesterday and the massage terapist advertise a therapuetic massage. We have some good conversationa and the massge we out of hand. While i was enjoying my massage, the therapist start touching my penis which i was ok with and at the end she start giving me handjob. Whitout notice i realize she perform unprotected oral sex on me during the HJ and i was shock. I think the oral sex was perform no longer than 2 minutes and not sure because i was closing my eye and tought that i was receiving a HJ. And i can see her saliva dripping around my penis. I become really scare when she finish me off follow with handjob and then i went to the restroom and clean myself up with the hand doap provided in the public restroom. I then ask her is she is clean and she said yes and she said she did not perform to everyone and only occationally when she feel like she like the clients. Also she said she is married.
I become really scare and as my intention is to just get a massage and i am worry to catch any thing that can cause my married life. Please let me know what is the risk to catch any thing from this oral exposure.
I went to a message yesterday and the massage terapist advertise a therapuetic massage. We have some good conversationa and the massge we out of hand. While i was enjoying my massage, the therapist start touching my penis which i was ok with and at the end she start giving me handjob. Whitout notice i realize she perform unprotected oral sex on me during the HJ and i was shock. I think the oral sex was perform no longer than 2 minutes and not sure because i was closing my eye and tought that i was receiving a HJ. And i can see her saliva dripping around my penis. I become really scare when she finish me off follow with handjob and then i went to the restroom and clean myself up with the hand doap provided in the public restroom. I then ask her is she is clean and she said yes and she said she did not perform to everyone and only occationally when she feel like she like the clients. Also she said she is married.
I become really scare and as my intention is to just get a massage and i am worry to catch any thing that can cause my married life. Please let me know what is the risk to catch any thing from this oral exposure.
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
The amoxicillin/clavulanic acid will reduce your risk for gonorrhea further.
As far as the need for testing is concern, you have to make that decision. Personally, I would not worry. EWH
As far as the need for testing is concern, you have to make that decision. Personally, I would not worry. EWH
Thanks for the reply. I am currently taking Amox Clav 850mg/125mg for a troat infection from cold. Is that help to prevent any things? Besides is it safe to resume regular sex activities with my partner? In your opinion, there is really no need fot testing at this moment?
Thanks.
Thanks.
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Welcome to the Forum.
Oral sex is an inefficient way to transmit or acquire STDs. Of the bacterial STDs only gonorrhea and nongonococcal urethritis (NGU) are transmitted to men through oral sex; chlamydia is not and without an obvious sore or lesion on your partner’s mouth, the chances of syphilis and herpes is likewise tiny. If you had gotten gonorrhea or NGU you will most likely develop symptoms of urethritis (penile infection - discharge or burning on urination). Even if your partner had an STD (any STD and it is likely she did not- most masseuses do not), most exposures do not lead to infection. In your case, your exposure was brief; I would urge you not to worry. If you must, you could go to your local STD clinic or health care provider to be tested at this time. The tests will be negative and in my opinion, you do not need testing at all.
As far as HIV is concerned, the quoted figure for HIV risk, if one has oral sex with an infected partner is less than 1 in 10,000 and, in my estimation that is too high. Some experts state there is no risk at all from oral sex. Neither of us on this site have ever seen or reading the medical literature of a convincing instance in which HIV was passed by oral sex.
Hope this comment is helpful. EWH
Oral sex is an inefficient way to transmit or acquire STDs. Of the bacterial STDs only gonorrhea and nongonococcal urethritis (NGU) are transmitted to men through oral sex; chlamydia is not and without an obvious sore or lesion on your partner’s mouth, the chances of syphilis and herpes is likewise tiny. If you had gotten gonorrhea or NGU you will most likely develop symptoms of urethritis (penile infection - discharge or burning on urination). Even if your partner had an STD (any STD and it is likely she did not- most masseuses do not), most exposures do not lead to infection. In your case, your exposure was brief; I would urge you not to worry. If you must, you could go to your local STD clinic or health care provider to be tested at this time. The tests will be negative and in my opinion, you do not need testing at all.
As far as HIV is concerned, the quoted figure for HIV risk, if one has oral sex with an infected partner is less than 1 in 10,000 and, in my estimation that is too high. Some experts state there is no risk at all from oral sex. Neither of us on this site have ever seen or reading the medical literature of a convincing instance in which HIV was passed by oral sex.
Hope this comment is helpful. EWH
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Herpes spreads by oral, vaginal and anal sex.
Herpes sores blister, then burst, scab and heal.
STIs are the most common cause of genital sores.
Millions of people are diagnosed with STDs in the U.S. each year.
STDs can't be transmitted by casual contact, like hugging or touching.
Syphilis is an STD that is transmitted by oral, genital and anal sex.
