Hello Dr.,
I have a lot of anxiety when it comes to STDs, and I just had a panel of STD testing done two months ago. At that time, I tested negative for HIV, herpes 1 and 2 (HerpeSelect IgG test), chlamydia, and gonorrhea. I was not tested for anything else.
My fiance has only been tested for HIV (also negative), but he swears that he has only had oral sex with three women before me, and never any genital-to-genital contact with anyone before me.
We bought a few new sex toys recently, both through Amazon.com and at our local Adam & Eve store. I always thought that Amazon was safe (they do accept returns, but apparently only on defective merchandise), and Adam & Eve always makes us make sure the toys work before we leave the store, since they don't accept returns.
Stupidly, I didn't even think to wash the toys before using them, and now I'm worried that someone used them before we bought them. My fiance and I also had unprotected sexual intercourse that night, which we almost never do (we have only done it once of twice in the past).
Flash forward 1.5 weeks later. Suddenly, I am having urethral pain, along with pain upon urination. I do seem to also have urinary urgency, especially earlier today, but it seems to have subsided a lot. I couldn't even sleep because of the irritated feeling, and also feeling like I had to pee somewhat, even after I did. My urine is also cloudy, but I see no external symptoms when I squat over a mirror.
I am terrified that I somehow have a STD. I have had a few UTIs in the past, but never any symptoms like this.
1. Could I have gotten ANY STD (HIV, chlamydia, gonorrhea, herpes, etc) from the sex toys? I am worried that they were somehow used before.
2. Is there any reason for my fiance to be tested for any of these STDs, since he has only had oral sex in the past, and was a virgin before he met me?
3. Does it sound like I have an STD?
Thanks for your help!