It is impossible for me to draw any conclusions or even probabilities from your description. Most initial herpes outbreaks have multiple lesions, so on that ground it sounds more like a pimple. Another possible clue: herpes lesions tend to be very superficial--think of them as being 'on' the skin--where as pimples are deeper and can be thought of as 'in' the skin. If you can feel the lesion as a solid
lumpLumps in the breasts, it probably isn't herpes.
But I am not drawing a firm conclusion and you can't either. If the lesion is less than 2-3 days old, see a provider now; an experienced provider often can tell pretty reliable on exam, and a culture test can be done if s/he suspects herpes. But both exam and culture only are useful with a fresh lesion. As you say, once it is starting to clear up, you should wait 12 weeks (6 weeks isn't long enough), unless a new lesion appears in the meantime.
Best wishes-- HHH, MD
What kind of Dr. should I schedual and appontment with?
thanks again, I went that afternoon to the planned parent hood clinic and the DR. said it was nothing and appered to be where a hair follicle had been pulled out ... the bump went away about a day after that ... thanks again