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Still have doubt. Help!?

I received unprotected oral sex from a stripper & some frottage with her panties on and also kissing on July 14. I was very drunk so you can understand how i feel. I have been tested for std's and hiv. All negative. I havent been tested however for herpes. Having herpes became my concern about 2 weeks ago, i realized i wasnt tested for it so i worried about contracting it. I forgot to mention in my other post that on the 1 st week after my exposure the inside of my foreskin was  sorta pinkish and it was only on the right side i could only see it when i peeled it back. It showed up twice and havent shown up ever since. It dissapeared very fast.  Something else i forgot to mention is that around the first week of august i dont know if i bit my tongue but at the tip of it on the left side i had a cut/white bump it hurted. Whenever i bite my tongue on accident it always appears right there, i always bite myself in that same spot. It stayed for about 5-7 days. Also my tonsels have been swelling up alot lately. Since my exposure they have swelled up around 3 times. The latest was 2 days ago. They are swelled up atm. I feel my left tonsel and its pretty big. I also atm have a runny nose. Flu like symptoms basically. I have also been getting some pimples/black heads on my face mainly around my mouth. In groups. I am still in my teens years i hope its  just that. I tested at 33 days post exposure. I am worried about having herpes since i hear that some people dont show symptoms. I am always using my tongue to feel around the inside of my mouth to see if i find anything i think shouldnt be there. Ill admit before i realized i wasnt tested for herpes. It didnt even cross my mind that i could have it. Any little tingle in my mouth or lip i think its herpes. I wouldnt say i stress over it but it is always on my mind. My sex drive went to zero basically, i dont even get erections like i used to. Oh and this is my SECOND sexual encounter, i had a gf about 5 months ago we were both virgins, no way he or she had any diseases. ALSO today in the morning my penis was red on the back side coming up from the base almost up to the tip. No itch.
Questions


1. Do you guys think i contracted herpes from this encounter. It lasted about 20-30mins tops.
2. Should i test for herpes?
3. Do newly infected individuals show symptoms or not? I am worried as i read in some of the posts that some individuals dont show symptoms.
4. Was my risk high or low.?
5. Can i engage in sexual activity now? I have had opportunities but i just cant get over my  experience. I really regret it.
Thank you all for putting up with my questions. I appreciate everything you guys do for all of us.
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101028 tn?1419603004
you need to back away from the mirror and take the batteries out of your flashlight!! you are spending far too much time poking around your mouth and noticing normal things that are increasing your anxiety.

follow up with your providers for better answers.
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No i never followed up about my throat i will soon.
Also i always seem to find something unusual inside of my mouth with my tongue like little bumps or skin that feels out of place. Keep in mind as i am always feeling around to find something unusual. Also i feel a pain in the bottom part of my tongue like a small cut. It stays for a day and then dissapears and comes back after awhile.
And on my penis i have been having these for a long as i can remember. They look like pimples but mainlh liked raised skin because of hair, just one or two on the back side of my penis. Is any of the above herpes? Genital or oral?
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101028 tn?1419603004
this isn't unusual at all for acne/blocked oil ducts.  

did you ever follow up on your throat like I recommended last month? plenty of viruses going around this time of the year as well as many folks are suffering from allergies too.  

as I said previously, chalk this all up to "what was I thinking" and consider it a learning experience. no reason to think std's at all!!!

follow up on your symptoms for the peace of mind you so obviously need :)

grace
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What scares me is that they appear in groups around one tiny location. They look like pimples but then again i could be wrong. A couple of weeks back they were on the left side of my face below my lip close to my chin they are on the right side now, same position.
I am also worried cause for the last 6 days my tonsels have been extremely big. My left one is pretty hard and bigger than my right one. They dont bug me but they dont feel normal and i have also had for the last 6 days. Running nose with alot of mucus, i feel like if i have a mild fever and i cough lightly to clear my throat, my voice doesnt sound well.
I dont get sick this often thats why i am worried and it just happens to occur after that even almost 8 weeks ago? I find it suspicious
Can it just be a normal disease like flu, or is it related to an std? Please i am worried. I am not 100% stressing over this. Its just a reason for concern. On my mind all the time.
Keep in mind i tested for basic std's and hiv at 33 days after exposure.
Should i go test again?
Is it related to an std? Please answer my questions. Thank you all.
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3230354 tn?1381305686
This is 100% not herpes. You're still a teenager so this is nothing more than normal spots that most teenagers suffer from.
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I know, i know i apologize. Just understand plz. What do you think it is?
2 days ago i had a black head that turned into a white pimple almost on my lower lip right side of my face and i popped it. Not it looks like its filled with clear fluid. I am just so worried right now. I also just popped another white pimple that is very close to the fluid pimple. What is this? Regular acne or herpes? I am worried. I seemed to worry about this after realizing no herpes test was done on me. But my pimples scare me are they related to herpes?
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3230354 tn?1381305686
My friend there's going to be no one more qualified to give you answers in this free forum than Grace and she's already fully answered your questions. Trust her answers.
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