Stupid move during Bachelor's Part

I visited a brothel a few nights ago as part of my bachelor's party.. was drunk and got myself hooked up with a prostitute, a good thing was i was still sober enough to refuse oral and vagina sex... but she gave me a handjob and i had masturbated her vagina with my fingers... i did have some hangnails although it wasn't bleeding.. maybe just some red spots at the end of the peeled skin, i also found a small scab on that finger the next day indicating that flesh was probably exposed.... i am scared like hell now... my questions are ...

1. what are the possibilities of me getting HIV from the fingering... she was wet and i'm sure some vagina liquid touched my hangnails..

2. i vaguely remembered using the hand i used to finger her to remove some tissue that was stuck on my penis after i ejaculated from the handjob... perhaps some vagina liquid that stained my fingers could have touched the opening of my penis.. am i at risk?

my world is crashing down on me right now.. i'm getting married to the girl i love in 1 week's time and i simply cannot believe i have landed myself in this situation.. pls help answer my questions!! thank you very much

[H. Hunter Handsfield, M.D.]

See numerous other threads on this.  Search for "HIV transmission risk", "HIV anxiety", and "hand-to-genital transmission" (which are the same keywords I am going to enter for this thread).  The bottom line is that you can relax, do not need testing for HIV or anything else, and need not worry about being a risk to your fiance.

The odds are the commercial sex worker was not infected with HIV.  But even if she was, the answers to your questions are 1) zero risk and 2) still zero risk.

Best wishes-- HHH, MD

[Imdumb]

You have ZERO risk of any STD.  STD's are only passed through vaginal, anal and sometimes oral sex.  Never through hand contact...NEVER.  Relax and enjoy your wedding.

[jojopopcorn]

can small pimple/tinywartlike growth on the head of the penis be balanitis? Is this caused by leaving *** on your penis after ejaculating and falling asleep without washing? Can it be transmitted to the fingers?

Please help...