Last answer. Swollen submandibular glands can be due to any number of things including dental or gum disease, a recent sore throat or many other every day infections. You are worrying unnecessarily. EWH
Any information on submandibular gland swelling and its relation to HIV/STD's would be greatly appreciated.
I am very scared and I won't be able to get to the doctor for at least a couple days. What else could cause a swollen submandibular gland? I've never experienced this before and it seems so coincidental that I would have it after a possible HIV exposure. Do you think my chances of a negative HIV test remain the same?
A swollen submandibular gland does not suggest that you have acquired HIV. You need to stay off the internet as you will be misled their more often than provided with correct information. EWH
Thank you for your responses. I was hoping you could address one more thing for me. I've found that the swollen lymph node is actually my submandibular gland. I've found a lot on the internet saying that a swollen submandibular gland is a symptom of acute HIV, and now I am quite scared. Would you mind speaking to that briefly? Does it change your assessment of my possible HIV status?
No, I do not think your enlarged node is linked to an STD.
There will be no further answers. EWH
Thank you, I understand. I know this will probably be your final answer because I have already asked about this, but I would regret it if I didn't ask again specifically about this. The significantly enlarged lymph node in my neck - you don't think that's likely to be linked to an STD?
Thanks for all of your help.
No, it would not be irresponsible to become involved with someone without testing but that does not change that your fear of testing is irrational and, I suspect, will continue to worry you until you get tested. Why not just do it so you can move on. EWH
Thank you so much for your response. I know that testing doesn't give someone HIV, but I'm just really scared, especially as a straight female because I don't think I'd find a partner in the future if I had HIV. I don't usually get sick, let alone stay sick for so long, so this has me really shaken. Can I ask you, with these symptoms, would it be irresponsible to become involved with someone without getting tested first? (If this is the only exposure I've had)
I'm sorry that your fears over this exposure continue to trouble you. My assessment however has not changed. Your continued difficulties however are still not in any way suggestive of HIV or any other STD and are far, far more likely to be the result of a coincidental respiratory tract infection.
From a medical perspective you do not need an HIV test but from a practical standpoint, you do. At this time a standard HIV test would provide completely reliable results and being negative (which I am sure will be the case) will allow you to move on and seek evaluation and treatment for your symptoms. You need to get over your fear of HIV testing. Testing does not give a person HIV but it does give them the power to know what is going on and whether or not they have the infection. Most tests are negative (and yours is virtually certain to be) but, if you were so unfortunate as to have HIV, the test would allow you to seek treatment sooner. There is no reason to delay or avoid HIV testing.
I hope this comment is helpful. You need to address these fears directly. EWH