I am 38 and for years now i have witnessed this. After intercourse, my partner comes down with a cold, sore throat and spotty skin. This has occured with every partner i have had intercourse with (and i have not had many).
For some time now, I had thought i had contracted HIV and passed it on, however, i have been tested (more than once) for HIV, Hep b & c, and all the regular sexual infections and nothing has been found.
My Doctor now thinks im depressed and imagining things. But beleive me i am not. I am now dating a really healthy young man (well he was before he started having sex with me), who hardly ever saw a doctor, but now since being with me, he is always ill with a cold, sore throat, and his skin looks dreadful and it always appears the very following day after incourse; especially after oral.
When i mention this to any healthcare professional, they have no answers and seem confused by this and what it may be.
I have visited a STD clinic several times and they test for all the usual stuff and always comes out negative.
I'm hoping someone will have any idea what this could be?