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Undiagnosed STD

I am 38 and for years now i have witnessed this. After intercourse, my partner comes down with a cold, sore throat and spotty skin. This has occured with every partner i have had intercourse with (and i have not had many).

For some time now, I had thought i had contracted HIV and passed it on, however, i have been tested (more than once) for HIV, Hep b & c, and all the regular sexual infections and nothing has been found.

My Doctor now thinks im depressed and imagining things. But beleive me i am not. I am now dating a really healthy young man (well he was before he started having sex with me), who hardly ever saw a doctor, but now since being with me, he is always ill with a cold, sore throat, and his skin looks dreadful and it always appears the very following day after incourse; especially after oral.

When i mention this to any healthcare professional, they have no answers and seem confused by this and what it may be.

I have visited a STD clinic several times and they test for all the usual stuff and always comes out negative.

I'm hoping someone will have any idea what this could be?
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Trust us it is not a STD.
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Still happening and still no answers from anyone. :-(
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101028 tn?1419603004
perhaps you should pay to ask the std experts for their opinion?
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Then what is it?  As it is obviously something.  
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Trust me, it happens every time.
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101028 tn?1419603004
no std causes symptoms the next day.

really, no reason to think that you are carrying around some sort of undiagnosed illness and giving it to others.

grace
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