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Unprotected Oral Sex - M2M - Slight Abdomen Pain and Burning of Urine
Hello - I made the mistake last week of both giving and receiving oral sex with another male. The other male is of unknown status and was a drug user/sex worker. I received the oral for less than a minute and gave it for roughly 10, with no ejaculation on either side.
Since then, I have had slight lower abdomen pain, a sore throat and what seems like burning urine/penis tip. I am in a monogomous relationship and really don't want to pass this on and certainly don't want to ruin my relationship by bringing this up, I'd rather deal with the guilt as this was a one time thing.
My questions are...
- What are the risks of contracting HSV, Ghonorrea, Chlamydia or Syphillis? (understanding that HIV is very low, if any risk, for oral)
- Is the abdomen/pelvin pain a symptom of anything?
- If the event happened roughly 4 days ago, would I be able to test for Syphillis, Chlamydia, Ghonorrea? I am going to the clinic this evening and asked them to give me antibiotics for Chlamyida and Ghonorrea anyways just in case.
- Would there be any risk of any of these diseases infecting my throat from his penis and vice versa?
- Should I abstain from any sexual encounter with my current partner? There would be no expectation of protected sex considering we are monogomous and saying no or we need a condom would certainly raise red flags.
- Am I at risk of anything else that I can't think of?
I am very worried about this encounter and would appreciate any insight and thoughts you can provide. Mainly, if you think I am at risk from this encounter and if I should abstain from any sexual encounter with my current partner given the circumstances.
Thank you!
Since then, I have had slight lower abdomen pain, a sore throat and what seems like burning urine/penis tip. I am in a monogomous relationship and really don't want to pass this on and certainly don't want to ruin my relationship by bringing this up, I'd rather deal with the guilt as this was a one time thing.
My questions are...
- What are the risks of contracting HSV, Ghonorrea, Chlamydia or Syphillis? (understanding that HIV is very low, if any risk, for oral)
- Is the abdomen/pelvin pain a symptom of anything?
- If the event happened roughly 4 days ago, would I be able to test for Syphillis, Chlamydia, Ghonorrea? I am going to the clinic this evening and asked them to give me antibiotics for Chlamyida and Ghonorrea anyways just in case.
- Would there be any risk of any of these diseases infecting my throat from his penis and vice versa?
- Should I abstain from any sexual encounter with my current partner? There would be no expectation of protected sex considering we are monogomous and saying no or we need a condom would certainly raise red flags.
- Am I at risk of anything else that I can't think of?
I am very worried about this encounter and would appreciate any insight and thoughts you can provide. Mainly, if you think I am at risk from this encounter and if I should abstain from any sexual encounter with my current partner given the circumstances.
Thank you!
You can get tested now for any bacteria std' s like gonorrhea. And chlamydia. Gonorrhea can infect the throat so have a throat swab.
Hiv is so low a risk I wouldn't worry about that. Hsv would be very very low as well as syphilis.
Hiv is so low a risk I wouldn't worry about that. Hsv would be very very low as well as syphilis.
Well there is always risk, I couldn't tell you for sure how much the risk is for any of them, hsv is relitively low I do know that. I would abstain from sex with your current partner, because if they find out, yes they will be pissed, but if they find out because you've passed them something they will be much much more upset!
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