Unprotected Oral sex (********)

[UK_bloke]

Hi there, If I may i would like to ask your advice on a little situation I have gotten myself into........

I'm a straight guy, 36 who has been in a realtionship with my now wife since high school (about 20 years). During that time I have never gone outside this relationship, never had anal sex or used drugs in any way or put myself or my relationship at risk in anyway. I have had two previous HIV tsts for the purposes of travel and insurance, both were obviously negative. However i suspect my story is far from unqiue and that you have heard it a thousand times before. Last week while on a rather heavy stag do in London, I received a an unprotected blow job from an anonymous male. the act it self last for roughly about 20 seconds and to be honest i was so drunk that I didn;t think of any consquences. I have no idea of this chap's sero-status and whether he had any other STI's.

It's now been 6 days since this incident and I'm quite worried bith for myself and for my wife. Haven't had sex since but we are trying to start a family so would like to have sex again.

I am showing no obvious symptoms of any kind; no pain on passing urine, no testiclualr pain, no pus or encrustaion around the penis and no rashes, blisters or lesions around the gential area or the penis itself. I noticed that this morning when i passed water after gettign out of bed my urine was slighty cloudy.

My questions;

1. Was i at risk of contracting HIV from this incident? And should I be tested?

2. What are my risks of contracting an STI like Chlamidia and Gonnerhea? And should I be tested?

3. What are the time frames to be tested?

[UK_bloke]

Hi Vance,

Thanks for the answer. I thought (according to the mass media at least in the UK) that Chlamidia is on the increase.

I'm getting a urine test for it and Gonnerreha tomorrow. I'm hoping that it's all going to come back as negative and that I can put this sorry episode behind me.

[Vance2335]

Chlymida is rare at best, and being that it is rare at best is not a concern.

[UK_bloke]

Hi Vance,

thank you for replying to my post. What about Chlamidia? Is that also no cause for concern in the absence of any symptoms?

Thanks.

[Vance2335]

1. None
2. Gonorrhea would be a small risk and without symptoms no reason to worry.
3. Gonorrhea-1 week, herpes (very low risk)-4 months, syphilis (very low risk) 6 weeks.