Very Confused

Well last week I noticed two tiny white bumps on my penis next to each other, they aren't painful, nor have they grown or gone away. I went to my doctor because I was worried, and he said it could be herpes but only if it hurt. I said no and he said then its just probably the pores or something and it didn't look viral. Then I began to read about the symptoms in women and realized that a lot of problems e.g. lower back pain, yeast infection (occurred only once), headaches and muscle aches appear manifest in my girlfriend of one year. I don't know if I should confront her to get herself tested.

[Vance2335]

Bumps can be so many different things and it does not really sound like herpes but your Dr is not being much help.
Best advice is to post over in the herpes community and see if anyone there with more knowledge of herpes can help you out.

Also you can always test yourself.