It depends on the infection. 10% of men with gonorrhea are asymptomatic. For chlamydia the figure is close to 40% - chlmydia is irrelevant for you since you do not get it from receipt of ora sex. For NGU, signs or symptoms are part of the definition. EWH
Thank you for your answer...just a quick follow up then I will give it a rest!!...How often do you see test positive for std's like clymidia , gonnerea and NGU and have no symptoms ?...what percentage of men do not develop symptoms?...when a person has a urine test for something unrelated to std's would they not see an infection in the way of WBC or RBC?. Thanks
Your risk from the outset is very low. Oral sex is an inefficient way to transmit STDs. Of the bacterial STDs only gonorrhea and nongonococal urethritis (NGU) are transmitted through oral sex; chlamydia is not and without an obvious sore or lesion on your partner’s mouth, the chances of syphilis and herpes is likewise tiny. If you had gotten gonorrhea or NGU you would have most likely developed symptoms of urethritis (penile infection). Even if your partner had an STD (any STD and it is likely she did not), most exposures do not lead to infection. In your case, you had a single exposure; I would urge you not to worry. If you must, you could go to your local STD clinic or health care provider to be tested at this time. As for your specific questions:
1. STDs can be asymptomatic but most in men do cause symptoms. The symptoms may be mild and unnoticed but from the sounds of things, it sounds as though if you'd had even mild symptoms you would have pursued them.
2. Very, very rarely.
3. Related to 2 above, yes, most bacterial STDs will cure themselves over time.
4. It might cure gonorrhea. Little effect on nongonococal urethritis if it were present.
5. In your specific situation, I see no reason for testing.
6. It of course depends on your own perceptions but in most cases the symptoms are noticed but ignored. Sounds like that is not your problem.
Hope this helps. I suspect you have nothing to worry about. EWH