What could this be?

A couple months ago, I noticed a small lump on the side of the perineum, more like in the bottom of my butt cheek but very close to my anus its hard to explain. So I just ignored it, I had shaved down there and I thought it was an ingrown hair. I kept feeling it though, everytime i  showered I could feel the small bump, it doesnt look like anything unless i tough it, thats the only way i noticed it, its not protruding it was more like inside of the skin. Of course I checked online on every possible thing it could be. It does not look like a genital wart, or herpes or any other std that i can think of. So about two days ago, I noticed its a lump and its alot bigger than it was. I seems like an ingrown hair but im not sure it kind of hurts now, it doesnt have a white haid or anything. I will go see a dr as soon as I can get an appointment. I need help what could this possibly be??????? Someone please let me know!!!!!!!

[auntiejessi]

It could be an infected hair follicle, and you should get it checked out.  If its lingered this long, you might need an antibiotic to get rid of it.

Aj

[wonderingaloud]

It could be a lot of things no one here could possibly diagnose you over the web.  See a doctor if you are concernd but I think it is not an STD this would be a strange place for it to appear.  Good luck all the best.