Here is my situation that I want to get advice on: I am a gay male and got a massage that turned into a sensual/erotic massage last weekend (not what I was expecting, but I am not a prude and it was fine). The massage consisted of the massage therapist masturbating both of us off at the end of the massage to completion. Although his hands switched between himself and myself a few times, there was no other notable contact. No anal, no oral, no kissing.
After the massage I touched-based with the CMT and asked if he was clean. He was embarrassed and told me that he was HIV+ but was on meds and undetectable (and otherwise clean). He also claimed to be free of other STDs.
Based on what I described above, what are my chances of getting HIV or other STDs? What is my risk? Do you suggest I get tested? Thoughts?
Note: One reason why I am a bit mental about this contact is that I started a prostatitis episode about the same time and am getting concerned that those symptoms might be and STD. I get these episodes on occasion and the abdominal pains and urethra sensitivity are common.