hello,
I am a gay 19 year old male. About 2 months ago I messed around with someone I met offline. After masturbation and frottage for awhile, he asks me if he puts on a condom, if we could have sex. I agree. He tries to penetrate me. For about 30 seconds there was a lot of pressure but, since I had been penetrated previously and the feeling was not the same, I didnt think he penetrated me. After attempting to penetrate me, I decided that I just wasnt comfortable with the situation. But upon turning around i realized that he wasnt wearing a condom. I was not too worried about it because I didn't think penetration has occured and he assured me he was negative. I decided to get a 6 week test to ease my mind, this was negative. But recently I have noticed I have been having alot of rectum discomfort and moisture in that area. I think that I might have an std down there. I am really scared because I know that if I got ghonorea or chlamydia, that penentration most likely did occur and I would be at the highest risk for hiv. I've also realized that the guy I was with is extremely promiscuous. Is their anyway that I could have contracted some kind of std without penetration? Do you think that this was indeed a very high risk for hiv? Someone please shed light on my situation. Thanks.
hpv and herpes are your more likely risks and even those risks are small. your symptoms don't sound std related. be seen monday and get a proper exam to find out what is going on. more likely a yeast issue than anything else.