Dear Doctor:
I will ask questions in bullet point fashion to make it easier to answer. Short background: about 25 days ago, I had
sexBuccal smear
Causes of sexual dysfunction
Child abuse - sexual
Delayed ejaculation
Erection problems
Female sexual dysfunction
Inhibited sexual desire
Orgasmic dysfunction
Puberty and adolescence
Rape
Safe sex with a
sexBuccal smear
Causes of sexual dysfunction
Child abuse - sexual
Delayed ejaculation
Erection problems
Female sexual dysfunction
Inhibited sexual desire
Orgasmic dysfunction
Puberty and adolescence
Rape
Safe sex worker for one minute. But 30 seconds of the
sexBuccal smear
Causes of sexual dysfunction
Child abuse - sexual
Delayed ejaculation
Erection problems
Female sexual dysfunction
Inhibited sexual desire
Orgasmic dysfunction
Puberty and adolescence
Rape
Safe sex was unprotected, because the
condomCondoms
Female condoms tore. Let’s assume it was 60 seconds of unprotected
sexBuccal smear
Causes of sexual dysfunction
Child abuse - sexual
Delayed ejaculation
Erection problems
Female sexual dysfunction
Inhibited sexual desire
Orgasmic dysfunction
Puberty and adolescence
Rape
Safe sex . Inquiries:
1. I am uncircumcised. It is my understanding that uncircumcised men are at greater risk for HIV transmission. All in all, assuming the
womanWomen's way were HIV-positive, does this translate into greater risk for me?
2. During the 2-4 week period after initial HIV infection, would ARS come all at once? Or does it come in steps? For example, after 8 days, I experienced nasal congestion for two days. Then after 14 days, I experienced one swollen lymph node in the groin. It went back to normal size fast (within 4 days). Then at Day 21, I experienced one more swollen lymph node in the groin. Also, during this 2-4 week period, I experienced a 100 degree fever for 2 hours. (I don’t even know if that would classify as a fever as my understanding is that our body temperature do fluctuate during the day). Does this sound like HIV-ARS at all?
3. If I can feel my lymph node below my ear, does that mean they are swollen? Everyone says that they are either pea-sized or bean-sized. I can feel one lymph node when I press below my left ear, but it is MUCH, MUCH smaller than any pea. Assuming that my one lymph node in the groin were swollen, and my one lymph node below the ear were swollen, is that what they consider generalized lymph node swelling during ARS? Based on what I’ve read, if lymph nodes swell during ARS, they will swell almost everywhere in chains. But please correct me if I’m wrong?
4. My understanding is that HIV could be found in a woman’s vaginal secretions. If a man has unprotected sex with a woman (say, such as in my case for 60 seconds), and IF the woman is not “wet” at all in the vaginal area, does this mean no HIV exposure. Of course, this assumes NO blood from current or prior menstruation. The reason, I’m asking is that during this 60 seconds, I highly doubt that I was exposed to any (maybe very minimal) vaginal fluids. Most of the wetness, I guess, came from lubrication (since there was NO foreplay at all).
5. I keep hearing that HIV is much harder to transmit. Is that really true? For example, if I had unprotected sex with a woman (e.g., 60 seconds again), and she has HIV, Herpes, Gonno & Chlamydia, Syphilis, and Hepatitis, wouldn’t my risk of acquiring HIV be exactly the same as acquiring the other STDs?
6. Lastly: does my scenario warrant HIV testing? I did see my Primary Care Physician, and I even told him it was a prostitute, and of course, he knows that I’m not circumcised. However, he said that he is not even concerned, even assuming the prostitute were HIV-positive. His concern is His concern is more along the lines of Herpes, Gonorrhea, and Chlamydia. Am I missing something here?